well i have a best friend who lives right in the townhouse across the street. her mom drives us to school and home after school each day but she is one grade older. we have been best friends for two years, always there for each other, countless sleepovers, over at each other's house each day.
well about a week ago we got in a fight over some little, stupid thing. i stormed out of the house and when i got home i assumed we would forgive and forget over the weekend.
well monday came and i was still a bit upset and when i rode w/ her it was like sitting next to a block of ice. ouch.
the next day i realized i missed my best friend (name's angie) a lot and wanted to be friends. but she brought her other friend home with her so i couldn't say anything.
i tried to make a point of being nice, but she didn't seem eager to be friends again. the next day, she ditched me and hung out with her sister, who doesn't like me.
after school the next day i once again was nice and things seemed to be...
2007-01-27 06:21:40 · 11 answers · asked by Lulu F 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
...to be going well. her aunt lives with her and she is like my family. her aunt reminded her they were going out to buy a new book and she (the aunt) asked if i wanted to come. i agreed, because i thought it would help me and my friend to patch things up if we kind of hung out.
well, i had my shoes on and we were ready to go when angie runs upstairs, and her aunt goes after her. i heard them talking with the aunt and her mom and then her mom comes down and tells me angie wants to go by herself. well, this really insulted and hurt me, i ran home and cried and deleted angie from my my space friends. now i miss her a lot but she never even asked me why i deleted her, it seems like she has forgotten about me, and i don't want to be replaced! advice, please!!!
2007-01-27 06:23:57 · update #1
haven't said sorry yet, because its kind of awkward...but now i'm wondering how i can...should i? and how? i know she would listen but im shy and i dont want to in front of her mom
2007-01-27 06:25:07 · update #2
if she truly feels the same way about you she will realize how much she misses you and will notice your attempts at trying to be friends again. these things always have a way of working out for the best just give her time to come around
you should definitely say your sorry. if you dont mean it, it doesnt matter just do it. theres no reason to let pride come between a good friendship
2007-01-27 06:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by wesnaw1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the first real fight between you and her? If so, she may just not know how to handle feeling upset with you. It also sounds like whatever you were fighting over was a bigger deal to her. The best thing to do is just put aside your pride and apologize. If you feel embarrassed to say anything in front of her mom, just write her a nice letter (or email) telling her how sorry you are, and how much you miss her. Depending on how hurt she still is, it might take her a few days to accept your apology. Just give it some time. If your friendship is as strong as it sounds, she'll come around eventually. Good luck! :)
2007-01-27 06:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by chickadee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who started the initial fight? If it was Angie, I think you may find that it was an excuse to break off your friendship because she is probably ready to move on. The fact that she is already talking to 'new' friends, suggests that she doesn't just want one really good friend anymore, instead she wants a group of friends. If you're ready to change with her, she might let you join in as one of her 'new' friends. Otherwise, it may be better just to move on and see if you guys drift back together. If you really want to be her friend again and cant talk to her, why not send her a note or a letter asking her why has that fight come between you guys and does she still want to be friends again-even if the relationship changes slightly.
2007-01-27 06:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ever want to know what a best friend is, is to get one mad. A best friend will forgive.
Seems your friend, Angie, is showing you her true colors. Usually with two friends there is one that is the dominant. So your "Best Friend" looks like she has the dominant role. People like these you need to avoid as you will learn later in life. They get insulted easy and she is just showing you what she is really like.
Since you tried to apologize cuz you dissed her, then do not try anymore. She may be one to be mad for a LONG time before she will come to talk to you. So do not worry.
If you have a bf that was hitting you would you be stupid to go back cuz you missed him. Most stupid girls will. Be cool and go on with your life.
2007-01-27 06:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps a phone call to discuss the whole situation can help. Don't start pointing fingers of guilt or blaming each other. Just let her know how you feel, that you miss her warmth and her company, and to ask to forget the whole episode that caused you to be estranged.
2007-01-27 06:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you both have sort of lost the trust in your friendship. like she lost your trust when you told your guy friend. and you lost her trust by her posting all the stuff between you guys on facebook. you guys should really talk. just the two of you. face to face. but if she starts yelling at you just be like " hey can we just not talk. like no yelling. please" and if she starts yelling after that just walk away then she'll get the message. but yea... this whole conflict could have been avoided by you not telling you guy friend. so just apologize for that; and then she might come around and apologize for her wrong doing too. good luck. and thanks for answering my question:)
2016-03-29 05:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her an email and tell her howmuch you love her. Don't get into a blame game and tell her all the things she did wrong... Just say sorry and that you love her and miss her
2007-01-27 06:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow,that's ruff.
Try sending her an e-mail and apologizing for whatever you two fought about.If this doesn't resolve things then maybe she wasn't your friend to begin with,and you should move on.Anyone who doesn't seem concerned with you deleting them from you myspace doesn't seem to genuine though.Good luck.
2007-01-27 06:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by lrfoster7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the way (phone, email, chat, mail....) to let her know how do you feel.
And if you feel sorry about what happened, tell her that too....
2007-01-27 06:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by drorba1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with her one on one. don't just let things play out. you have to confront her and solve this situation before you will never see her again.
2007-01-27 06:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by mastersmartjason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋