Just got back from shopping. Saw a woman flashing her cleavage. She saw me staring and told me off. I told her "If you don't want a man to look, don't give a man the view!" The manager (a woman) told me I needed to leave the store. Why do women show so much and get so mad if men look? I'm not married so I look if they stick it out there.
2007-01-27 05:58:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Its a lack of knowledge and education on the women who are showing their cleavage. They haven't been told that this is wrong. They think its acceptable and even attractive. And if they are not happy with a man who looks at them then they are probably not attracted to that person so they act offended. But I agree that if a woman does not want people to stare, comment, drool, or gag at their chest they should dress appropiately. But I dont see much hope for these ladies to learn this any time soon. Who is going to teach them this? Not our society that is for sure.
2007-01-27 06:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by griggser 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she wanted people to see them or she wouldn't have had them on display. At least you didn't try to jam a dollar bill between them, now that might have been offensive. She probably craves attention and she sure got lots of it. Not just from those who glanced or even stared at her boobs. She also got a rise out of you by acting pissed about you looking, more attention, then she got her boss in on the act to defend her and her little peep show, which equals more attention. Long story short if she doesn't want kids pressing their face against the glass then she needs to put the candy away.
2007-01-27 06:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by Bean62960 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, even as a woman, I find it hard to argue with you. If someone flaunts it, they should expect someone to stare.
HOWEVER- what is "flaunting" can be subjective.
Your say in essence- she WANTS to be looked at or she would not be so flashy, and therefore does not deserve the normal social niceties of not being stared at.
You can keep going further:
Hey, if that woman didn't wear pants, It would be harder to see where her crotch was situated, she should wear a dress if she doesn't want to be stared at.
Hey, that woman's clothes are close enough on her body that I can make out that she has breasts, if she doesn't want to be stared at, she should wear a long flowing cloak that completely covers her shape.
Hey, I can see that woman's face! I can see that she is young and in the age range to have babies. If she doesn’t' want to be raped, she'd better cover up her face.
Is that example extreme? Of course it is! It’s extreme to the max.. but not outside the realm of human behavior.
Just look to the hard-line Muslims and the woman covered head to toe.
I just want to say that yes, if she bends over and they fall out, or bends over, forcing you to became an impromptu gynecologist (No panties),this is outside our social "Norm".
It's human nature to try to get others who fall outside the "rules" to conform.
Those that do not conform to social normalitys are devalued.
In this case it is her choice- others do not have a choice due to their physical disabilities, age or genetic makeup.
Where I agree with you- yes, she was asking for attention.
Just please be careful not to let it give you leave to be nasty to your fellow humans.
2007-01-27 06:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by There you are∫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And you are right. Being a woman myself I am conscious of things like this. I wear full shirts and blouses when I go out. No point in giving an open invitation and then crying about it.
P.S. I do wear pajamas out sometimes but to smaller stores if I have to pick up something needed and I am sick but still I am completely covered.
2007-01-27 06:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sure hope you were not gawking at her. Some men are so rude and obvious. On the other hand, if she didn't want to be noticed , she would be dressed more modestly.
In any event, you must have done something other than catch a quick glance from the sound of it.
2007-01-27 06:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by atomictulip 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I wear a low cut revealing dress or top, I fully expect men to take a look....that is what they do.
If I don't want them looking, I avoid that type of clothing. Quite simple.
I think a woman who reveals her goods and then complains when someone enjoys or looks, is trash in my mind.
2007-01-27 16:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman is showing she wants it looked at. Apparently though she didn't want you to look. But that is the chance SHE took when she was showing it off.
2007-01-27 06:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by goldensparkler61 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of this is probable that she's by using no skill had that form of kindness until eventually now. nonetheless, i could be rather careful for the reason that she ought to be a type of folk who're overly emotional approximately each and every thing. i might carry off on the intercourse until eventually you be attentive to that she's no longer likely to be a bunny boiler. loopy intercourse could be exciting, yet no longer rather unquestionably worth the hassle.
2016-09-28 01:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by intriago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. If you don't want the attention then don't flaunt the goods. Looking and feeling sexy is one thing. Showing off is another.
She should have opted for a less revealing top if she didn't want attention.
2007-01-27 06:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by BrewMan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most people are air headed idiots...but i firmly believe that the only reason that women do this is because they want to have "super sexy hot model type men" looking at their junk, and if you don't fit that description, then u r a perv!
2007-01-27 06:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋