my parents never let me have my bf in my room and they dont let me have him over when their home what do i do???
2007-01-27 05:47:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
my parents wont even really let me have one my mom is all bitter when i do. their house their rules i guess you just gonna have to follow them
2007-01-27 07:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask them if you can have your boyfriend over for just two activities: doing homework together and watching tv together. Then make sure that when he comes over, that is all you do and you both behave well. You're parents just don't want to feel like or act like watchdogs and they're afraid your boyfriend will start horsing around with you and start getting physical. That doesn't have to be the case but you have to prove it to them.
About having him in your room - HELL NO. Do you really think your parents are idiots? Get a clue.
2007-01-30 11:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah my parents are like this too... but w/e, i dont have a bf now anyway....well, i agree with the room thing, but i think they should let him come over and just hang while they are at least home. just talk to them i guess. prove how responsible you are, and tell them, look all we're gonna do is watch tv... or something. if that doesnt work.... just try to go to his house. but ask your parents first.... and if they say no, then ask why they wont ever let you spend time with him... im sure they wont be able to come up with a reason, besides of--WE DONT WANT YOU GETTING INTO ANY TROUBLE... explain how resonsible you are, once again, and show it. if that doesnt work... i would just go anyway
good luck :]]
...and maybe it would help a little more if we knew your age.
2007-01-27 06:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by =] 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, i know what your going through, but i hate to tell you this, but your parents are right, i know you don't want to admit it, but its true! I've just turned 23, and will be a parent really soon, and i can tell you that if i had a little girl, (assuming your somewhere in your teens), i wouldn't allow you 2, 2 be alone together in your room, your hormones are wild and crazy right now, and maybe your not even thinking about sex, just want to make out all the time, but guys your age will be thinking about it, and that's why your parents are acting this way, they know from experience. I think you sound responsible, and in so your asking this question to see what others feel about this situation. I will also tell you this.... my parents made the mistake of allowing my sisters boyfriend to spend time alone with her in her room, and occasionally stay the night, (although he had to sleep downstairs on the couch). My sister ended up pregnant at 15 and had a baby at 16. She wasn't ready it ruined her adolescence. So please talk to your parents, maybe you can understand a little more of where their coming from now. No matter how much they want to protect you from things, you still are your own person, just be careful. Good Luck!
2007-01-27 06:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Novak 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ur at a age wen u think any restrictions ur parents give u is PERSONAL...maybe u need to sit donw and speak to them (showing them how responsible u can be) and try to come up with something that can make everyone happy. For example, ask them if u can pick one day a week to have him come over and watch a movie with u (while they are home of course). U need to show ur parents that u can follow the rules and keep thier trust, because once u break that it only makes it harder for everyone.
2007-01-27 06:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Chuleta Ma AkA *Chu* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My parents were like that till I moved out and are like that with my sister now. We were not even allowed to go to our bf's house if his parents weren't home and couldn't go into our bf's room.
2007-01-27 08:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mine were - and I was as a parent.
Think about your motives for wanting to have him there. Door open? Or do you want the door closed for a little "make out" session.
While you may not think of sex as your motivator - with all the right conditions, you don't know what could happen and that's probably what worries your parents. They are looking out for your safety.
If you're thinking about going to his house for the same reason, please think twice. How long have you known him? How much can you trust him?
Respect your parents, and respect yourself enough not to endanger yourself in this way.
2007-01-27 06:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get new parents? How old r u anyways? U sound very young. Why would you think your b/f should have any reason to be in your BEDroom? The teen pg rates are OUT of this world. Not to mention "date rape". Your parents are trying to protect you.
2007-01-27 06:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by luv2bake 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to act grow, in your parents home, pay the bills or move out.Get your own place then they can't tell you who u can have over or not.
2007-01-30 11:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Viki M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol I am not even allowed to have a boyfriend. But you have to convince your parents to trust you. Otherwise, if they find out you disobeyed them, they may never let you have a bf.
2007-01-27 06:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Follow the rules and be happy that your parents care enough to want to keep you safe.
2007-01-27 05:53:05 · answer #11 · answered by allamericandoll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋