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why does it seem i choose the wrong people to be friends with.

1)i've known this kid for 4 years, and the other day he stole my credit card and emptied my account, 4 years down the drain....

2)another friend just doesnt want to hang out with me anymore. he use to sleep over my house about thrice a week. now he has better things to do. i've tried talking to him...

3)my best friend from elementary school stopped hanging out with me when we went to different middle schools...

4)and my all-time best friend from childhood moved when i was about 9 years old...

All these people called me their best friend...

am i doomed to remain bestfriendless for the rest of my life?

2007-01-27 05:34:48 · 9 answers · asked by J J 3 in Family & Relationships Friends

9 answers

I am sorry you are so sad. Life sometimes does this to us and it makes us much more stronger and independent. Most of all, we appreciate true friendship all the more. Hang in there. Your time will come :-)

2007-01-27 05:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well... for me...

1. My first best friend was my best friend for about 4 years then we went to high school and we just stopped talking.

2. I got the best friend of all time, and she moved away and I haven't spoken to her in 5 years now because she moved from state to state and I couldn't get in touch.

3. My cousin was my best friend and we just grew apart.

But now, my best friend is my fiance... so losing those friends was worth it and he has made up for it. Maybe the same thing will happen to you.

2007-01-27 13:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by * 5 · 0 0

Hi, I'm Sophie. I know that it's hard to keep good friendships with some people because sometimes they just lie to you. But always there are more options for you: Maybe a friend you didn't remeber was beside you, ore some peolpe that just make your day more beautiful. Don't give up, find those friends.

If you want to write me, I will answer. I could be your friend :)

Sophie*

2007-01-27 13:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Go out meet people. Friends come and go trust me. Just like they did. But you gotta move on and find another people to hang out with.

2007-01-27 13:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by Haley 2 · 0 0

you are a best friend, a real friend who is alway there for help and need.
most of your friends just use you for this purpose only .. because you need to bring change in your life..
change your lifestyle.. all of your bestfriends are suckers.. they use your facilities only .. and when they are borred they come to you to pass their time.. dont let anyone do like this.. you are special because people feels that they can get help out of you.. but dont be stupid.
use most of your energy on yourself.. get yourself some gifts. adjust your lifestyle .. make some nice hot good looking female friends..
there is too much you need to learn and too much you need to do for yourself..

2007-01-27 13:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by da_cancer 1 · 0 0

sounds like you are a push over who is too nice and that you let people walk all over you

you need to start being wiser with your choice of friends, and don't let people use you. you need to stand up for yourself.

2007-01-27 13:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You can count your true friends on one hand. Get over it. You will be ok.

2007-01-27 13:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

probably but ur life's not over

2007-01-27 13:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by Hayden W 2 · 0 0

you should go meet new people..

2007-01-27 13:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by Promise 6 · 0 0

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