I'm 33 years old and had 2 late miscourages.Who could help me?

Question

First miscourage was at 18wks and later I was told due to womb septum(later removed)and incompetent cervix.
Second time I had cerclage at 15wks.At 18wks cervix was OK(36mm) but at 20wks I started opening and stiches were loose.
I was pointed to hospital.I had no contractions.Bacterias eshericia was found and was treated with antibiotics.At 22wks I had recerclage.At 23+2 I started just a little spotting and at 23+4 I suddently opened totaly and gave birth.
Baby died after 4 days.Same bacteria was found in his body (but not in placenta!).
One doctor told me this happended due to IC and bacterias. The other one told me that my womb was just not developed ok which is why I had the septum and why my womb cannot stretch enough to hold the baby so it starts opening when the baby starts to significantly grow.Afterwoods I did some blood test but all's fine
Could it realy be that my womb can't stretch enough to hold through the pregnancy?
What are then my chances for future pregnancies?

Answer 1

I don't know of any reason why your womb would not stretch. You should go to a maternal fetal medicine doctor at your local hospital, or see a fertility specialist.

Perhaps next time you need to be on bed rest with your cervix sewn closed.

I'm very sorry for your losses

Answer 2

I do not know the ansers to your questions but I feel so deeply for you...i want to tell you though that i have two I gave birth to and one that came from the foster care system and they are all equally "my children" Pray

Answer 3

have your dr. test for bacterias before you try again, i miscarried back in march 1st...... i didn't give up and now i have a healthy 3week old(i'm your age). you need to be in peak condition, even a yeast infection can cause things to go wrong, if you have something, most likely hubby has it to and could re-infect you. if you get meds for anything he needs to get of his butt and get cleaned up too.
good luck