we were going to get mairried put it on pause, now its all my fault i dont get it
2007-01-27 05:34:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it was meant to be it will happen. Fight for her if you want - but - remember that if it is not meant to be - better to break it off early than after you are married and go thru the hell of divorce.
2007-01-27 06:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by fffrrreeeddd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we don't have enough information - did you have a fight? Did you make her feel unloved or like she wasn't important? Did she do something to make you mad or you, her? If she is mad about something then she probably needs to fight it out and resolve it somehow...I dunnno...it doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't love you and doesn't want to get married - ALL people in relationships do bassackwards funny things..sometimes not so funny, too. Who put it on pause? Either way, marry her if she will have you, already. I know it makes no sense, but neither does your question. I think too many people OVERTHINK why and why not they should marry someone and waste a sh**load of time. If you love them, marry them - if they love you and you don't marry them, be prepared to lose them because they think you don't care enough to. People didn't obsess so much fifty years ago, it was simple - either you loved someone or you didn't. NOW people think, oh I have a better deal with "My career, my friends, playing around, living at home, spending money, drinking beer and all the things that don't make one &*^(*&BIT OF DIFFERENCE. Yes, these wonderful creatures will amaze you AND drive you crazy - LOVE them...just love them :)
2007-01-27 13:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by think about it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn it around. Move on with your life, look toward the future and open your mind to other possibilities. She might be drawn back toward a strong confident guy who has a future, rather than a guy who is down and struggling and pleading. If not, rebuilding yourself is still the best plan. Good luck.
2007-01-27 05:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!, don't waste your time on her, it sounds like it was just a game to her. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone that you just argue with and blames you for everything?Just imagine when you have kids! She will be doing this in front of them too. GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN!!!!!
2007-01-27 05:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no we will never understand it, but if there is so much arguing now, and fault finding why would u want this person back? could she be seeing someone else?
2007-01-27 09:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing head game with you . Grow a set and tell her to get lost it was all a game to her . good luck and I hope you find someone alot better.
2007-01-27 06:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋