Ok if a guy brakes up with u and says to move on and that they are sorry for what they did and that they loved u and they still have feelings for u and they say that they will be back if u get a job and a licenses and they say to make ur family stop babyin u what does that mean?
2007-01-27 05:32:37 · 9 answers · asked by tai m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It means that he likes you, but you need to grow up, and stop living off your parents, and you need to get ur drivers, and get a job, and i idnt mean to say that meanly lol
2007-01-27 05:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means what what you are telling us. You are not independant enough for him. But you can't change yourself in one day. They either accept you or don't. He doesn't so let him go and move on to someone who won't let things like that brake the relationship. Some men don't like to always drive their girl all over town when she feels like it. And he was probably always paying for you.?
Look at the situation and ask yourslef if all of it is true. What did he do to you? Cheat or just left you? You were just not his type that's all. You'll meet other guys, so don't worry about him. But maybe you should get a job and at least start with your drivers license.
2007-01-27 13:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he loves you like he sais and he means that. He has issues of his own and he excpects you to fix them and in reality we all have issues but the way we get through relationships with them is to acknowledge are own problems and love each toher for just who they are and not what mistakes theyve made. I mean seriously if it werent about your license or family it would be something else. He needs to realize he loves you not your family, licence or your job. He is suppose to love you for your love and frienship. So your choices are up to you. If you take advice from others it may hurt. The first thing in life is to make sure you have full confident before you enter a relationship and that way things wont hurt as much because things wont be able to get to you and choices will be much easier. As for him if you let him be and let him see that his love for you in more than the other things then he will come back to you. if he doesn't you'll carry his baggage through the rest of your relationship. If you ask how would I know. believe me alot of counseling and a screwed up relationship. Love is unconditional nomatter what issues are infront of the relatonship.
2007-01-27 13:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by Daniell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy breaks up with you and tells you to move on and THEN comes back later and says that if you do this, that and the other, he will go back out with you, I'd say he is wanting his cake and eating it!
Basically no one has the right to ask another person to change for them. People change because they want to do this for themselves.
I am assuming that you are relatively young if he is complaining about your family "babying" you...?
Well- in all honesty for him to poke at you and want you to change to please him, is he not then also treating you like a child?
No- this is no good.
He wants you to change your life to suit him better.
YOU decide if you want to make those changes in order to have him back. I reckon you will not want someone who doesn't love you for who you are HOW you are! Few self-respecting young folk would!
Tell him politely that his request that YOU make all the changes is not acceptable. If he wants all that to happen what is he going to offer to change about HIMself in return? And listen to the answer.
:-D
Good luck!
2007-01-27 13:40:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that he felt like you are immature and spoiled, or it could have been a very good cop out. Instead of saying he met a new hottie that is now his gf, then he tried to blame it on you. Keep your head up and be glad he is gone.Good Luck!
2007-01-27 13:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by tryin4freedom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What ever the reason, it's over and you need to move on
and don't look back. You can take the criticism for whatever
it's worth, especially if you keep hearing it from other guys
as well.
2007-01-27 13:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means , your history. he has found some one else now, so he dumps you.
But beware if he comes back full of bull and empty promises. That would indicate, that he lost the other one, and is now once again, looking to you for his sexual needs.
2007-01-27 13:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants you to become a responsible part of the relationship.
2007-01-27 13:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he may have found someone else for a while but will want you back later!!!
2007-01-27 13:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by BlessedMommyof3.. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋