My husband never helping me at home with our only toddler son,please tell me what i have to do
2007-01-27 05:26:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thats a womans job, you have to take care of them yourself. Its your husbands job to bring home the bacon. If you can't handle it, get a babysitter.
2007-01-27 08:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Bruce 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You have to sit him down and make it plain that he WILL help around the house or hit the curb. You might start by drawing up a list of the chores, splitting into two equal parts and ask him which list he wants to take responsibility for. It's much easier for him to work from a list of things that need to be done than it is to "help around the house".
2007-01-27 13:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well men are really like that i am sorry to say. You should just say i am going out shopping and leave the tike at home with his daddy and then he will realize how difficult it is doing it alone.
2007-01-27 13:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down with him and have a serious talk. If you've tried that already and nothing changed, there really isnt much you can do. He needs to be willing to help you out as much as possible.
2007-01-27 13:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is something you should have worked out before you got married. There really is nothing you can do. You can't force your husband to help you.
2007-01-27 14:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
divorce him take 1/2 his pay 1/2 of everything he owns and get a young stud bf and move on...
if he don`t think enough of his own child to help, you mean even less......
2007-01-27 13:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by wjk31092 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you both work? if so then you both need to share the responsibilities........I have 4 kids and I do it all on my own..........one child shouldn't be that much trouble......
2007-01-27 13:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sex. obviously he couldn't handle one child. so don't try to have another one just yet. he'll get the message.
2007-01-27 14:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by girliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a wife and discuss it with him... if he's not willing to listen and help he's not worth your efforts anymore.
2007-01-27 13:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by Btieti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
replace him ........duh
2007-01-27 14:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by southernstranger2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋