One day I hung out with my cousin's friend. He was cute and charming. At the end of the day told him I'm a hooker cuz I've always wanted t find out if any guy would pay me just to have sex with them. We did the deed. When he was pulling his wallet, I told him I wasnt really that and I was kidding. We never talked again though we'd see each other in parties. My cuzin cleared that out with him too. Sometimes I remember that incident and I wonder if what I did was sooooo out of the ordinary... was I too crazY? Void of inherent self respect and values?
2007-01-27 05:17:07 · 20 answers · asked by Stefani 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Im 29 now I was 25 then. Sometimes I just remember what I did and I dunno if Im just too eccentric.
2007-01-27 05:22:28 · update #1
Postitution is a business. This business creates profit by offering sexual services such as *******s, **** sex, and others for a fee. If you work as an independant, pimpless, your profit margin is 100%. The overhead is simply the cost of living: food, rent, utilities, communications, etc. In many countries, such services are regulated and taxed, but as a business is perfectly ordinary.
You are not crazy. There are millions of individuals, me included, who enjoy creating and planning and applying socialogical experiments using their own resources. Such behavior is not mainstream, but is hardly crazy, or lacking in value.
You are not void of inherent self-respect if unless you choose to be. Self-respect is not commanded by others, but by the individual and therefore need not be earned. If you still respect yourself in the morning, then you still have it.
Your values may be questionable to a great majority of people, but, again, the only "values" you must adhere to are those of the law. I believe you may have broken the law by soliciting an individual for sexual services which is a crime in most of the United States. Whether or not you accepted payment, the law would determine that the solicitation did indeed occur and charge you appropriately.
Good luck, use protection and I respect you fully.
2007-01-27 05:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by voodooprankster 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not really. Especially since it wasn't yesterday, looking back on a lot of things we did a few years ago, we ask ourselves, "What were we thinking?" Everyone thinks that sometimes. For you specifically, it's not something that most women would actually go through with but I bet most women at least think about it at some point. I have. I was just curious as to what it would be like and how the person would treat me (and if the sex would be better or worse). Okay probably TMI but there's something fun about a guy ocassionally taking control (not rape, of course) but just doing what he wants. I've wondered if I was crazy thinking these things before! It's like when a girl watches Pretty Woman, if she likes the movie and the story, does that make her think being a hooker is okay? Not necessarily but it still takes away their holier than thou attitude about stuff! As long as you don't make a habit out of it and you didn't do it with someone with diseases (which sounds like you didn't) then I'd say move on you're good and when you tell a guy that story he'll probably be turned on! LOL
2007-01-27 05:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First and foremost, Yes, this is a little strange and unordinary. I mean, we live in a cruel society and most men would have sex with any woman they could get their hands on. If that wasn't the case than young girls and boys and woman would not be raped. Men will do whatever it takes to get a piece of *** and for you to pretend to be a hooker when you're really not is really not normal. I understand your curiosities but I feel you could have gone about the situation a little different, rather than giving yourself away like you did. Sex and making love is for people who love you and for someone that you love back in the same ways, it's supposed to be special and sacred. You're not supposed to give yourself to just anyone. That is just disrespecting yourself and allowing others to take advantage of you. I don't know why you would want that. It's done and over with now, you've already done it and it can't be taken back but learn from your mistake and know what you did was wrong and something that isn't normal. Good luck in the future and I hope you find someone who loves you for you and not for what you look like or for what you can provide for them in the bedroom because you truly are worthy of a lot more than what men really make you out to be worth.
2007-01-27 05:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by journeythroughlife85 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry but that does seem a bit out of the ordinary. most guys dont like hookers cause theyre dirty and nasty. its not really a very proud job to go about and promote yourself. i guess it matters how old you were and all. if you were young and just being young then yeah it was crazy but you know what? you were young and having fun..but if you were already considered an adult when you did it, then im sorry but it does seem a little low and you kind of just let any values or self respect for yourself go.
2007-01-27 05:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by danceangel312 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes ma'am. You have some psychological issues. If he was cute and charming, were you trying to make a joke out of stating you were a hooker? Any free puss to a man is good puss ,so of course he will take you up on the offer. I can understand in one aspect why he would not talk to you, cuz thats some crazy shyt to act like you are lower than what you are (a h.o.e), unless you have fantasies of that lifestyle and have low self esteem. But I guess you see what happens. Did you ever try to talk to him again? He might just see it as free puss anyway and just not talk to you, but i aint gon lie; you made and A.S.S out of yourself lol....
2007-01-27 05:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
My belief...Why pay for it when there's so many out there that will give it up for a nice dinner?
No disrespect inteded but lets use yourself as an example. You already had the intention of sleeping with the guy...well...for free. He didn't HAVE to pay, he just needed an ice breaker.
A guy will sleep with most any female he pays attention to...the only hurdle is finding out if she would just have sex. It's too rude to just come out and say..."Wanna go somewhere and get laid?".
BTW...Not crazy. Nice ice breaker. Removes the doubt.
2007-01-27 05:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yeah. You like getting slapped around??? Most hookers get abused, not only from pimps, but from their johns, who in the end will not want to pay - watch out then !!
2007-01-27 05:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by gemini6187 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend when I was growing up who would say things just to see how people would react. I don't think that is particularly weird. But what disturbed me about him was that he NEVER told anyone that that was what he was doing or why. It was like he was secretely accumulating information about how people's minds worked and he was never going to tell anyone what he'd learned.
You are telling people you did it. That makes you seem less antisocial to me.
2007-01-27 05:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by Dennis H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you did was not sell yourself like a hooker but you gave yourself away.The only difference was the money.Still pretty disgusting....but then I think you knew that.Your just asking the question for shock value.
How's that self respect feel now?
2007-01-27 05:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by Kitty? 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
in the adventure that your lady pal or spouse makes you purchase them issues for intercourse then in line with danger you could evaluate your relationship. that is no longer prostitution. the kind: prostitutes do it for a residing and basically provide intercourse for the money, yet your lady pal or spouse. you do no longer basically have them come over and have intercourse and you provide them a $20, and with a bit of luck that is basically them and not distinctive companions
2016-11-01 10:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋