MY FIANCEE DOES'NT INTERACT WITH HIS FAMILY SINCE WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER .I ASKED HIM IF HE WOULD LIKE TO LEAVE ME SO HIS FAMILY WOULD EXCEPT HIM . HE SAID ,BUT HIS HEART IS OVER THERE.HOW SHOULD I TAKE THAT?
2007-01-27 05:09:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There's no reason why he should have to choose between you and his family. Why can't he have both in his life? Do you not like his family? Or does his family not like you? You need to make an effort to interact with them. When you get married you'll be part of the family, you might as well start acting like it.
2007-01-27 05:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why isn't he interacting with his family? Can't he be with you AND interact with his family.
It is very hard to form a full opinion about the situation with so few details.
It sounds like he is very bothered by whatever is going on with his family and may be feeling a bit torn between you and his family. Are you making him choose between the two of you or is his family?
It is impossible to give advise about this with so few details.
2007-01-27 05:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that means that he loves you, but he also loves his family. I'm sure he's in a difficult position, like you are, and I'm sure he feels confused and pressured to do the right thing. I think the both of you should sit down with your family and try to reslove things. Good luck!
2007-01-27 05:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by riss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HIS STATEMENT MEANS..HIS HEART IS BEING TORN APART BY THE PEOPLE THAT HE LOVES..HE HAS YOU ON ONE SIDE..HIS FAMILY ON THE OTHER SIDE..PLAYING TUG OF WAR WITH HIS HEART..IN OTHER WORDS..HE WANTS ALL OF YOU IN HIS LIFE..NOT JUST ONE SIDE OR THE OTHER...HE DOES NOT WANT TO LOSE THE PEOPLE THAT HE LOVES..EVEN THOUGH HE IS WITH YOU..HE STILL LOVES HIS FAMILY..HE IS WITH YOU..HIS HEART IS WITH THEM..IT WOULD BE THE SAME..IF HE WOULD LEAVE YOU TO BE WITH HIS FAMILY..EVEN THOUGH HE WAS WITH THEM...HIS HEART WOULD STILL BE WITH YOU..HE LOVES ALL OF YOU AND WANTS ALL OF YOU TO BE IN HIS LIFE..
2007-01-27 06:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by noga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesen,t mean much unless you find out what,s going on.perhaps he just doesen,t want to go over there,because he rather be with you,but he,s heart lies over there with his memories of his family.so don,t take that the wrong way.
2007-01-27 05:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋