Anxiety problem???

Question

I started dating my boyfriend about 5 months ago. We just clicked. Whether it was infatuation or not I dont know. We are very attracted to one another,caring,respectful,trustworthy & sincere. I enjoy his company and laugh alot with him but other times analyze every move he makes so that it ends up being "annoying". I was diagnosed with an Anxiety disorder about 2 mths ago and I dont know if this is what is causing this or not. I continue to believe that I am falling out of love with him and he is a "loser." Why? I dont know. This is my first NON dramatic relationship and I actually enjoy the calmness but feel as though I am missing something( I was thinking could possibly be lack of jelaousy, I have trust in him - which I have never had with anyone before, but it makes me believe that I dont care about him) which are not bad things to miss but are not familiar to me. So what I am asking is...Is this normal for this to happen at the 4 month stage or am I actually falling out of love?

Answer 1

You are actually going through a settling stage. If you love him then stick through it, but if you are just staying with him for the relationship status, it is best to move on. Anxiety can be a mf, trust me. This settling stage can be extra hard on people with high anxiety. It lasts for quite awhile, but once you are through it you enter into a comfort zone.

Answer 2

First of all to be diagnosed with an Anxiety disorder was "anxiety" forming enough, let alone trying to figure out your feelings. I would say that deal with you diagnosis in private or with continued professional help. As for you current relationship, enjoy him and let nature take its course. Keep your chin up!

Answer 3

Keep taking your medicine, and start to let go of old baggage, remember you deserve to be happy also, so enjoy your boyfriend, be as happy as you can, block all of the negative stuff out of your mind. and realize that you deserve to be happy!