my friend met a girl in mumbai both of them fall in love due to some circumctances they both got seperate and he got married to someone else. Now the prob is tht his ex gf is back and is after my friend she keeps calling him, they both have met for 6 or 7 hours. my friend is again in love with her. her ex gf knows everything tht he is married, nor she is saying tht he should leave his wife and she doesn't want tht he should leave her.She say tht she will not marry anyone else except him and keeps crying in front of him. My friend doesn't know wht he should do....plz help him.
2007-01-27 03:49:56 · 14 answers · asked by xyz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your friend's ex sounds wacko to me. My advice is for him to RUN LIKE HELL !
2007-01-27 03:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This should be a no-brainer...the ex gf needs to move on and grow up. Hopefully he married his wife because he loves her...and if that's the case, he shouldn't have any problem in telling the ex to move along.
If he's having problems doing this, then he has to decide which is more important...making his ex happy or not hurting his wife.
He's the only one who can dig out of this situation...and unless he's going to practice bigamy, he's got no choice but to make a decision for one or the other. Hopefully his decision is the best one.
2007-01-27 03:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when you put yourself out there in a circumstance, as in meeting for hours at a time, and you know that the attraction is still there for at least one of you, you are playing with fire. First, if the "friend" had any morals whatsoever he would never had met with the ex, second, if she had any morals she would be mature and realize that their time has passed. No one seems to be thinking about the wife and how she may feel about this whole situation. Ex needs to bow out and move on, and wife needs to dump this loser before he really breaks her heart!
2007-01-27 04:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by tryin4freedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to decide what's important to him, his marriage to his wife or the ex-girlfriend. He can't keep being with both. There is no easy way to do this because someone is going to get hurt. But the right thing must be done. He needs to make sure he is happy with his decision. He will have to live with it. We shouldn't make decision in our lives to soon we must take time to think things through. Or they will come back to haunt us. He deserves true love but so do they, so he should hold on any longer to both of them make the decision as soon as possible. He must remember that love is honest and he needs to be honest and tell them the truth. Even though is may be possible for him to love two people at the same time he have to be responsible enough not to hold on to them both. True love will bring peace and he should know which one is to be with him as his wife.
2007-01-27 04:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by relationcounseling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consult a lawer without getting things noticed to ex girlfriend of ur friend.and listen what lawer says. take his wife along in lawer meeting too as u cannot leave things unsorted.girl will definetly get scared if she would be given a notice /even a warning of a notice.As i know ur friend would not like to harm his ex. first warn her and then take further steps
bye.
2007-01-27 07:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by day vis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 10:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend must inform the ex that it is too late and his good,lovable innocent wife cannot be penalised.also he should inform ex that the wife knows about ex and is going to give police complaint if ex ever calls him again.this will make the ex run far far away
2007-01-27 17:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by kun18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should make it clear that he is really happy with his current wife unless otherwise.
2007-01-27 03:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a true girl friend never insist 2 leave her wife........she should sacrifise that his lover must be happy.......again spoiling his life and another women life????????
2007-01-31 01:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by paka a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can invite all three for lunch or dinner. Things will cool off.
2007-01-27 14:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋