I love my husband with everything in me, and just awhile ago he felt like what he said sometimes never matter,he said I had a big heart for family and friends (I was apush over)But I have learn alot from letting people take me for granted and my new family (my husband and kids)takes #1 above no other.But anyhow I want my husband to always feel that he is my all and people outside our family will never come first again, so what can I do for him that screams I love you all over it?
2007-01-27 03:24:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
greet him when he comes home in some new fancy underwear and some new power tools, he won't be able to resist. Underwear, new power tools, I know I would know that my women knows the way to my heart.
2007-01-27 03:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by ctymf660r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my second marriage I had a successful first but there were things we did to each other that weren't always nice (young dumb) When my husband and I decided to marry this time (much older) we both knew that we wanted to make sure we didn't make the same mistakes.(taking each other for granted, being nicer to stranger than we were to each other.) I have let my family and friends know from the get go that he is first . We also do things like the first one up makes coffee and the other gets coffee served in bed We are courteous to each other at all times If you show him respect and courtesy every day he will know how you feel because you will be showing him remember action speak louder than words
2007-01-27 11:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by pokey's gumby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for almost 20 years. And I know that sometimes we often put others before our spouse. You don't have to do anything materialistic, but what you can do is maybe let your friends and family know that you are no longer going to be a pushover and start being more attentive to his needs. Put a note in his pocket on his way to work. Somewhere you know he'll find it. You can get a sitter for the children (if they are still young and need a sitter) and plan a sexy evening for you and him. Start by initally calling him at work leaving a sexy message, maybe have phone sex with him at lunch time, and then give him a hint that you have something planned "special" for dinner. Before you "deliver" reinterate to him how much you love him and adore him; let him know that you appreciate him. Good luck.
2007-01-27 11:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may always take your family/friends side rather than his side.
Next time in your conversations, try taking his side by looking at it from his point of view... and speak out in front of other people about the things that you feel your husband is right on.
Remember that your family starts with your husband too. your Mom and dad are your family, do you think your mom takes her friends side before her husbands..? no.
Just doing what I said above will say more to him that doing anything drastic which will just make him think you are trying to hard.
2007-01-27 11:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by yo mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a hot summer day, with air conditioning only in our bedroom. He came home from a scorching day at work. I had run a nice, cooling bath for him. I had a note on the bathroom door, telling him to go in. There was a delicious and frosty homemade Pina Colada sitting on the tub rim, and a note telling him to come into the bedroom when he was done. Inside our room he found the air conditioner on, and me lying under the sheets, naked. You could tell where it went from there. That was the most romantic thing I've done!
2007-01-27 11:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its in the summer then turn on the air conditioner if it's only your room and leave a note on the bathroom door saying to take a bath on the rim leave him his favorite drink and then when he's taking his bath get undressed and get into your bed naked and then when he comes out he will find you there and then you where it goes from there. Its the most romantic thing I've ever done!
2007-01-27 11:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Ssarah Hopkins1012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A weekend jet ski vacation! Sorry, I love these things too much. If you get on one you will understand, when your husband gets on one his low attitude will brighten instantly! However, if you are in a northern climate like me, Upper USA, and snow is everywhere, I would at least order the vacation and drop it in his lap. That way you have 4 months to get the $'s to pay for it. And it is not that expensive.
2007-01-27 11:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan a nice dinner for him and than wear a sexy outfix for him do a little dance for him
2007-01-27 11:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by msredbonel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that each week you want to set aside a certain amount of time or one day to spend alone together. whether it be just to talk, to make love, to go out or whatever. tell him its because you love him and want to keep that strong connection with him.
2007-01-27 11:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a tattoo of a heart with his name and your kids names in it. That is constant reminder.
2007-01-27 11:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋