Woudl you support me if I say that I am going to wait for this girl who previously rejected me? It is just that i love her as much as or even more than I love myself.. Please do understand my reason and not criticising me as a stalker or any weirdo.. I have never felt such feelings before; someone more than just physical attraction..
Would you support me if I say that in a few years' time, I will continue to develop myself and become someone and by that time I will ask her out again? I am 14. In the meantime, I would be a good friend and be there for her?
WIll you support me?
2007-01-27 02:52:20 · 17 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yOU SOUND MATURE AND SWEET! YES, I'D SUPPORT YOU! SHE BETTER WAKE UP ONE DAY AND SEE THIS GREAT GUY YOU ARE, OR ANOTHER GIRL WILL BENEFIT! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
2007-01-27 03:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by whoa,3boys! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I'd support you but only if you promise to actively seek dates with girls whom you like even if only as friends. You are fooling yourself if you think you can 'continue to develop' while you are hiding in a shell, isolated and waiting. It's not stalking, it's just a creepy, destructive way to live. If, after actively dating (not just talking about it or thinking about it), you still are interested in this girl on a romantic level, you will be a more mature person with better social skills because of your dating experience.
2007-01-31 08:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will support you but I will also tell you to be careful!
My best friend met this guy when she was 14 and they became best friends but he liked her the entire time (they became friends after she rejected him a few times).
When she was 17 she would run to him for comfort. He was convinced they would stay together, but he was ALWAYS the rebound... for YEARS.
Now they are both friends again.... but BE CAREFUL! Although she may change her mind, make sure you are not the rebound or all you will ever be is the rebound and never the boyfrind.
2007-01-27 11:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id support you, but if she sais she doesnt want any more of you around or something like that, then i wouldnt waste my life just waiting on her. You should meet other ppl as well and if you still feel like this then ask her out again. I also think you should tell her how you feel if you didnt already. Anyway, i think its really awesome how much you love her and maybe she just doesnt realize and is being stupid- her fault, not yours!
Good luck!
2007-01-27 12:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by kykygoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will support you, but if some else comes along that sparks your interest than don't hesitate to give that girl a chance just because you are waiting for the girl of your dreams to go out with you. Just be there and support her, but I bet if some else would go out with you and she will notice you and maybe you will get your wish.
2007-01-27 11:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by yari1229 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to forget her and just go rub one out or something. Girls at that age are very cruel and heartless (and they get worse as they get older) She will crush your feelings and self confidence, causing years of anguish and acrimony. Find a girl that actually likes you and hope for the best until she ultimately breaks your heart but at least you had fun for a while.
good luck
2007-01-27 12:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by chetahbill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude,
stop being a spineless wimp and forget the ho. as i have found, no girl is worth waiting for. NONE!!! especially the ones that make you wait for anything. if she 'rejects' you (boohoohoo) once, she will reject time and time and time again. dude, youre her doormat to wipe the doggie doo that she has stepped on.
youre 14. chances are that you are going to live another 60 years. are you telling me that in SIXTY years you wont be able to nail a girl by then? youre not an insect with 24 hours to live.
just masturbate while fantisizing about her, her friends or whatever smoking hot chick you find while surfing for porn on the net...and when you do finally get to screw her...take my word on this one...screw her as many times as you can and dump the ho. then move on. there will ALWAYS be another one around the corner.
the more you ignore a chick...the more she wants you. it's in their nature. if you try to be the nice guy, she will have you carry her books home, give her answers to her homework, ask to to blah, blah blah...all the while she is doing the nastiest SH*T with some other guy in every one of her holes! dont believe me? i have had this happen to me AND i have been the guy screwing some guys chick while the loser was doing everything for her. this has also happened happened to my friends as well.
ANY girl and i mean any girl who 'asks' you or 'wants' you to 'wait' is trying to get as much out of you as possible while doing the Mother F*cker who treats her like a whore.
females are the biggest users. believe me i screwed some of the most conservative appearing on the outside girls in the nastiest most vile ways. in fact, i tell them on the first date that i am going to scr*w them. if they get offended, i end the date right there, have them pay for their half and leave. if she laughs and thinks that is funny, i already have them...it is just a matter of when we get back so i can get the deed done. in fact, i am in no rush whatsoever...i even want to enjoy my dinner (which i will pay for in these cases).
to summarize the key points:
- masturbate when not screwing a chick
- NEVER wait for any girl. i repeat NEVER!!!
- treat ALL girls like crap and they will run to you
- use protection when you screw them. use a condom at least. learn how to put one on yourself. dont trust the girl to 'sexily' put one on for you. most likely she wont know how, screw it up, you get her pregnant and kiss your life goodbye. so many girls want to 'trap' guys with a baby. this has happened to a lot of my friends!
- keep track of your condoms if you (most likely) screw them more than once. there have been news stories of girls getting a hold of the guy's rubber filled with his c*m and put it into their p*ssies to get knocked up. either put tobasco sauce in your spent rubbers or take them with you when you leave.
every girl that says to wait...in my experience, is doing some other guy and most likely guys!!!
2007-01-27 14:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by jkk k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a guy waitin for me right now since im 14 he cant really date me or anything but he respects my parents/ the law and hes waitin till i turn 18 i dont see anything wrong with that that is so sweet.
2007-01-29 10:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if i were her id want you to leave me alone because i no longer have feelings for you and just thinking of when i did makes me sick depending on who you are I wouldnt mind being friends as long as you buried the past relationship first
2007-01-27 18:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by Avaria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWW THATS SO SWEET I will definately support you, I wish there were more guys like you in my school, all the guys in my school are pervs.
2007-01-27 11:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by Stunnas on got my stunnas on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i'll soport you
soccer kissesâ¥
2007-01-27 11:18:12 · answer #11 · answered by soccer kisses!!!!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋