How do these people live with themselves?
2007-01-27 02:18:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I asked myself that same question for over 5 years while my ex cheated on me.These people have no concience or care for anyone but thereselves.You can Love them all you want and with all of your heart and soul and they are just using you for what they can get out of you or how to humiliate you next.You would be better off to move on with your life and not look back because you deserve better and I am sure you can get better.If you ever need to talk about it email me I have lived this nightmare and hated every minute of it and the best thing that happened was they day I came home to an empty house and she was gone it hurt at first but life goes on and it gets better.Good Luck
2007-01-27 02:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they cheat then it means they are not happy with the person their with and its not love. If you love someone you would never do anything to hurt them. How they can live with themselves is because truely the don't really care for that person so they have no worry's of how the other one feels.
2007-01-27 11:21:13 · answer #2 · answered by smileygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't think about the consequences and assume someone that loves them completely would and will put up with whatever crap they have to dish out because a gal is so in love with them; don't be that gal! Set boundries in a relationship as what you expect and the first and most important item on the agenda is being faithful in the relationship. If they can't meet that basic requirement, you are wasting your feeling and time and asking for a world of hurt.
2007-01-27 10:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are not thinking about anyone but themselves. They never learned about actions and consequences. They want instant gratification at any cost. Destroying lives as they go. Then so suprised when it all blows up in their face. Cheaters are very immature people, who should never have entered into a committed relationship. This person you love so deaply probably has alot of wonderful qualities about them, but the concept of fidelity is not one of them. Sad for everyone.
2007-01-27 10:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have no conscience, their belief system is alot different from yours, as well as their morals. they are basically narcissistic. have poor character, they make rash judgments, their goal is to get what they want no matter whose life it destroys, they lack the compassion gene, and can't feel it when they hurt someone, as this may have been the way this person was raised, to get over on anyone, and do anything it takes to get their needs satisfied. these people will never know how they have hurt the other person involved in the relationship, until it is them that is hurt, till it is them who has to suffer the hurt, till they are betrayed by someone they counted on and loved. they are selfish, self serving, and not sorry for it, even if they were they would never admit it.
2007-01-27 10:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the other person has fallen out of love, regardless of what you do you can't make that person love you.
If someone has "left" the relationship mentally and emotionally, it's only a matter of time when they leave physically, which apparently they did.
Swallow your pride and just walk away from it. This person wasn't meant for you. Take the time to purge all the negativity from this relationship and move forward.
2007-01-27 10:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but when you get the answer can you please tell me cause that is what my husband told me right before he went and got a girlfriend! So I hope your situation works out how you want it to. In my opinion you can't and shouldn't cheat on the person you love!
2007-01-27 10:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by jac6jam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These people have no conscience. Plain and simple. And you'll find them everywhere you go. The days of loving monogomous relationships are unfortunately a thing of the past.
2007-01-27 10:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by Megafunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with megafunk 100%. It is sad how cold some people can be. True love is a thing of the past(or very hard to find).
2007-01-27 10:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by AlienJack J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there it is hard to live and I DO have a conscious about it. It hurts every day. People sometimes do not think before they act.
2007-01-27 16:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by Lalangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋