I'm very stressed out please help. I just had a miscarriage a month ago I am again pregnatn, and just let my b/f he was cheating and mentally along with physically abusive towards me. what are the chances of having another miscarriage. 4 days ago i was throwing up i know that is normal, but I have diarhea too, is that normal? Help
2007-01-27 02:16:50 · 11 answers · asked by dan_and_jeannie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
The 3rd person who answered my question said it's a shame I'm pregnant under the circumstances yes, but personally I'm very ecstatic!!!
2007-01-27 02:29:33 · update #1
Ok, first of all, diarrhea goes right along with stress. Throwing up goes right along with pregnancy. So try not to fret over these two.
What you DO need to concentrate on is getting yourself some help and away from your abuser. This is no condition to raise a child in to begin with. You are gambling with your baby's life if you stay there with him. Also, go ahead and see a doctor if you are worried for the baby's health. You must ALWAYS have healthcare when you are expecting. I hope you can find the strength to find your escape out. For your sake and the baby's sake. There is always someone to help you, somehow. Good luck.
2007-01-27 02:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by ṼξŋØლǿԱ§ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make changes NOW. Don't sit around and wonder what to do- YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO. Leave him, go to a family members house if you can, if you can't then move out either by yourself or with a friend or look for an ad in the paper for a roomate needed post. You need to get away from him because he does not love or appreciate you- and you need to take care of the life growing inside of you and yourself. If this baby self aborts then you need to realize that it is not the right time in your life for you to be getting pregnant. You will be ok once you get away from the situation that is causing you all the stress. Good Luck and PLEASE take care of yourself FOR your baby.
2007-01-27 10:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by paradiseintn 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the looser and lower your chances of miscarriage.
Also getting pregnant immediatly after a miscarriage can increase your chances of miscarriage as your uterus may not have healed.
However diarrhea isn't a sign of miscarriage.
Seriously GO TO AN ABUSED WOMAN SHELTER IF YOU HAVE TO BUT GET AWAY FROM THAT "MAN"!
2007-01-27 10:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's all normal, but being under a lot of stress puts you at risk for a miscarriage again. get out of that relationship asap! either you care for the child alone, or you give it up for adoption. for your sake, and the baby's, get out of the abuse. it's a shame you're pregnant, but make the best of it. i'm sure you have friends and family who will help you.
2007-01-27 10:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you want to have a baby? if not why are you not taking birth control. Any way it happened because god wants you to be I would get out of the abusive relationship asap don't wait its not healthy for you or the baby . Your a strong women you can do it for your baby sake. Good luck I hope you have family and friends that will be there for you . My prayers goes out for you.
2007-01-27 10:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by gg 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had diarrhea when I was first pregnant with this one. Everything is going good for me. I think it is normal. You need to stop stressing. It isn't good for you or the baby. Good luck
2007-01-27 10:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not a shame that you are pregnant but a shame that you are in this situation you deserve peace at this time in your life
so take care of your self & your baby
try to relax so you can carry it to full term
God bless
2007-01-27 13:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want a baby with a man who cheats beats you up and mentally abuses you why would you want a baby with such a pig get yourself a life girl get away from this idiot
2007-01-27 10:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl its all about you and this baby...forget him right now...i have had 4 miscarriges i now have 2 daughters...worry about him later but do what u got to do to keep u and your baby healthy... throwing up and diarreah were normal for me.. if you ever need to talk e-mail me.....good luck!!!!!!!
2007-01-29 06:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by cuddlecake27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister had diarhea too when she was pregnant.
2007-01-27 10:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by sweetyforever04 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋