My sister is pregnant and she is only 13 she doesn't want to tell my parents but i want to tell tem but if i tell them im afraid she'll hate me. what should i do?
2007-01-27 02:05:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Ask her how she plans to keep it from them! Tell them she'll have to tell them eventually, so she might as well get it done sooner rather than later. This will give her the opportunity to discuss with them her options and to start receiving prenatal care, which is very important and will be more more so for someone her age. If she's still stubborn and refusing, then tell them yourself and brace yourself against her wrath. They WILL find out.
2007-01-27 02:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by desiderio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sister will get over it even if it takes years tell your parents thats the best thing you should do. your parents are going to see a lump when she is like 3 months tell your parents my mom had a baby 4 months ago and it is not fun i was in the delivery room and it is nasty the afterbirth, the birth, the stiches, and the whole thing she is thirteen she should nt of had sex she is way to young if you tell your parents they could do something about it because i dont think she wants to have a baby. will i hope not at this age... dont get an abortion if she has the baby you probibly could set it up for adoption, give it to a family member, orhave your parents keep it if they want a baby. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-27 11:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,You have to tell your parents unless they'll hurt her for it. Life is long if you are so young and someday she'll know that your telling probably saved her life in some ways.If not medicly then in getting her help with how the rest of her life will be affected. If they will harm her then there are many organizations who can help like planned parenthood or a group called LIFE.God bless you both. TELL!
2007-01-27 10:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by Clover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, tell them! They are going to find out anyway!!! She will show sometime in a few weeks and if she aborts, I do not think they will on a 13 year old without parents consent, well, I guess some states might, but it should be illegal without parents knowing! They are going to know anyway, so tell them so they can help her!! She needs their guidance!!!!!!! You'll be doing her a favor! Sorry for you and your sister's situation at a young age! YOUR PARENT'S NEED TO KNOW NOW! gOOD LUCK!
2007-01-27 10:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by whoa,3boys! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should convince your sister to tell them. Tell her she can't do this alone and she needs to go to doctor appointments to get checked and to get vitamins and she can't do it by herself and that she needs to tell mom and dad so they can help her. Tell her of course they're gonna be upset for a while but they will still love her and the baby and if worse comes to worse is there a relative that will take her in? Tell her you love her and her baby and you only want her life to be ok. but right now she really needs help and support from her family and she can't get that if they don't know what she's going through and the longer she waits to tell the harder things will be for her and the baby. I don't think you should tell your parents though- this is for your sister to own up to. You just be her brother, help her and love her. Good Luck
2007-01-27 10:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by paradiseintn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would give your parents some clues because if you dont tell your parents she could be in danger because she is so young. I know your sister would problably hate you but in the future she will thank you. Help out your sister try talking to someone about this.
2007-01-28 00:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they need to know and sooner or later they'll probably find out anyway a good rational decision needs to be made trust me she'll thank you later as long as what she wants to happen with the child is done(well if she wants to keep it anyway) and if your parents what to make her have an abortion then mabe you should talk to them but once it's out it truly is her choice
2007-01-28 17:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by arkariansgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to support her. Your parents need to know, for everybody's sake. If it helps, tell her that you'll tell them with her. If she's still unsure, you have to tell them. Firstly, you have to explain to her why that's your only option... very difficult though. Good luck. Hope all goes well
2007-01-27 18:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by tank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them. She might be mad at first but she needs medical care and only your parents can get that for her. She will get over it and thank you later. Good luck
2007-01-27 10:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to convince her to tell your parents and if she still refuses to do so than you have a right to tell them in my opinion.
2007-01-27 10:12:15 · answer #10 · answered by mdoud01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋