I need help, How do I self motivate myself to do a long term project which must be done for my loved ones sake

Question

Thank you very much.

Answer 1

Well, I would take it one step at a time by developing a plan to buy materials, possibly making a sketch of how you want it to turn out, and a time frame in which to accomplish it...
Figure in your costs and time to allow to work on the project as well...
Set your personal goals to be easy to reach...

Answer 2

It sounds good that you need help to help your loved one. The concerned person need to do the project independently but is is always possible that some help is needed. However, if it were a case of total transfer of the job to you, then you may take the reasons of this to happen this way into account. May be, your loved one lacks time and tuning for the project and finds you as an educator. May be, your loved one has profound confidence in you and also has been building expectations. May be, your loved one is very very close to you in relationship and has had the privilege of getting frequent support from you in the past. These forces often act as driving motivators to help and support and even to take others' fights upon yourself. Outcomes are positive rewards, no doubt, in a majority of cases.

Answer 3

Well only you can self motivate you. But to help you structure your project, set a particular time of the day or week to work on your project. Depending on the projects time frame only you can do it. Each day or day of the week be sure you adhere to the work schedule for you and your love one. That way you can do a little over a long period of time and you Will have more success. Only if you set your project in your mind as very important to you and your love one. Set up a plan, time and work that plan with in the time frame you set. If love doesn't give you the self motivation then nothing will. Good Luck.

Answer 4

If you really love your loved one, you won't need that motivation. If you can't find motivation, then you need not take that long term project for your loved one's sake. You better talk it out with your loved one and come to a conclusion which is best and use your 6th sense.

Answer 5

If its something that must be done, then do it, motivated or not. We all have to do things we don't especially want to in life, but when its important, as I'm assuming this is, then you just suck it up and do it.

Answer 6

Need motivation? All you need to do is look at your loved ones. When you feel like your motivation is waning.....look at your loved ones once again, and know, that you're doing it for them.