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Question

So i went to my crushes basketball game last night w/ my friend(lets call her nikki) And the schools biggest **** was there (lets call her jen)w/ a few girls one being my friend (this girl has like no friends they all pretend to like her to be nice)but jen HATES my friend and was giving us dirty looks.they over heard me and nikki talking about my crush..so later nikki went into they hallway to see something and jen and another girl were there and said some things to her and then they were like " how should we tell Jake (my crush) your friend likes him" My crush already knows i like him and so does all his friends basically alot of the school knows (they all are waiting for us to go out)but am scared she is gonna spread lies about me like stalking him to everyone or something.What should i do if she does? Or do you think she'll forget by monday and was juist trying to get a reaction out of my friend? I dont look like a kind of girl that would do that would do that.(i wouldnt) were 14

Answer 1

Sweet 14. You'll have a lot of bf in school & after. No she's not going to forget by Monday. She sounds like the sorta person that thrives on spreading rumors, gossip & lies. Get use to that, there is always going to be people like that. I'm going to send U some site that will help you in flirting. Be honest with Ur crush to see if you can get something started. Do not worry about her lies, I would guess everyone that knows her knows how she is.

http://www.ArtOfApproaching.com/FlirtingTips
http://www.Luvessentials.com
http://www.enotalone.com/152-1.html
http://www.romantic-lyrics.com/flirtideas.shtml
http://www.romanceopedia.com/S-Flirting.html

There are a lot of ideas in these sites. I hope I helped or gave you something to think about.

Answer 2

Don't worry about it. She was probably just trying to get you (or your friend) riled up. Normally, if you ignore those kind of people, it takes the "fun" out of it for them, and they leave you alone. Besides, it sounds like this girl just likes to spread gossip. Generally, although they may listen to what she has to say, most people see these kinds of gossips for what they are -- liars -- and don't really believe a word of it. If it becomes an issue, go talk to your crush, tell him that "Jen" was making things up about you two, and pass it off as a joke. If he hears it from you, then it's your word against hers -- and who do you think he would consider the more reliable source?

Good luck!