The thing is that I am working and trying to take care of our bills. you know I really love her and think she is the one. She do almost anything for me. She took care of me when i had nothing. I know she has this money issue and may feel I wont pay her bill and keep her credit up but I will. All I want is for her to just get me this x-box 360 that cost $500 and she wont charge it on her credit card. I told her I will give her the money piece by piece for her credit card bill. I notice everytime I mention it her mood changes. I dont want her to feel like I am using her. I will pay her back. I just have my own bills that i have to clear first then get to hers and also I have to give my grandma some money aswell and I dont think she see how much expense I have. I am grateful that she spent all that money on me when I didnt have any but I just want her to understand that but she doesn't. What should I do to show her I am for real and will pay all that she owe for taking care of me?
2007-01-27 01:16:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am not selfish.. This is just one thing I want her to do and she just can't do it. I am working I can pay her back
2007-01-27 01:47:12 · update #1
You are so selfish! YOU are so very selfish and stupid for thinking like this. How can u expect ur gf to just 'sort' out all ur fixes when u want them? If u were hungry for food then she would help you for sure, but a silly game? You are valuing the dumb game more than u value ur g/f.... get this through ur head!
You don't love HER, u just love yourself and your possessions. IF you really loved her then u would respect her, pay her back her bill of $1300 right now and not be using her. Why can't u see that? Shame on you.
2007-01-27 01:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lara D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are selfish because you prefer her to have more debt than you. "I just have my own bills that i have to clear first then get to hers". If you desperately want to buy that xbox, buy it with your own money and take out a loan if you need to because it is not fair that she needs to pay interest on her credit card just so that you can buy your xbox. You said that she took care of you when you had nothing so you must be grateful for that. Now that you are working, you need to budget your spending if you want to buy that xbox, not taking her for granted just because she is your girlfriend. I think you should buy her something instead for all that she's done to you when you had nothing.
2007-01-27 11:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should pay off your bills first and then save for the xbox 360. i see your girl's point why should she get into debt over your video games if you cant afford it then you cant expect her to pay the interest rate on her card while you pay for it piece by piece. that isnt right. and as for doing something to show her you are for real try writing out a budget and figure out how you can pay off all your bills and manage to take your girl out and spoil her a lil bit.
2007-01-27 09:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm.....so you have a history of financial problems and you are already into your girlfriend and your grandma for money.....and you can't understand why your girlfriend won't front you $500 for an X-Box:?
If you want to show her you are for real, pay the money you owe her and forget about the x-box.
2007-01-27 09:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by jrsgurl62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you pay her back for all the "taking care of you" she did in the past? If not, there's your answer! Why should she believe you this time?! Grow up, get some responsibility, pay her back, then worry about your toys! You're actually lucky she's stuck with you! Count your blessings instead of wanting more!
2007-01-27 09:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are lucky man, your gf is atleast helping with money when you need. But that's not being a man asking her money for a video game. she is not your mom.
instead you should be the one buying her gifts even if you dont have enough for yourself. what do u want this girl to think ???? that her bf can't afford himself a video game and will complain like a baby when she does not give money?
normally, girls run after money. atleast , she is helping you.
i would respect her more than ever even if she just offers me help(for sure i would not accept from her).
2007-01-27 09:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by i don know y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and take care of your own bills......an x-box is not a necessity to live. you should be out working instead of playing games.....you are very selfish and are using her....pay her back before asking for another handout.....if I were her I'd be dumping your butt!!!
2007-01-27 11:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by willie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you have a history of not paying your bills or you would have your own creduit card.....buy your own dumb box.....boy are you self centered.oh and pay your bills.
2007-01-27 09:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by chasin_jasen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save your money and buy an X-Box when you have the money. Do NOT buy toys on a credit card. That's irresponsible.
2007-01-27 09:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by just browsin 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
do your own dirty work, and let her do her own. its not her responsibility to buy you toys, thats only if its like birthdays or anything else. but dont TELL HER to buy you stuff, thats selfish.
2007-01-27 09:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋