other each and said sorry many times as sweet way and i feel still she doesnt talk sweet maybe she feels bad what i done. does she have right not to be sweet even if i asked and its been 4days now still not sweet to me so she has right not be sweet or need time
2007-01-27 01:11:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Will you get it through your thick head?! She is not obligated to "speak nice" to you. If I was her I would have left you by now. You have some serious issues. You need to stop thinking the world revolves around you. It doesn't. She has feelings too and even though you may have apologized, by your questions, your not really sorry, because you justify it by saying you did it because she said something she "shouldn't" have said. Bullshit. There is no justification for what you did. NONE. I'm sure in your apology you even said something to that affect too. Like "I'm sorry for hitting you, but you shouldn't have said that to me." So in the apology you say "I'm sorry, but it's still your fault it happened." Get therapy. Grow up. Keep your hands to yourself.
2007-01-27 01:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physical abuse is wrong. You sound like you realize that now, but when someone else says something you don't like, what happens then? Do you hit them?
If that's so, you need to do something about this before you seriously hurt someone, and before you get yourself in trouble. As it is now, she could legally file assault charges against you. Then you're looking at arrest, court hearings, lawyers, expenses, fines, and maybe even jail.
Or you can admit you have a problem and deal with it. You're probably thinking, "Yeah, right - I don't have a problem, I don't need nobody telling me how to deal with people." Let me tell you, it takes a man to stand up and admit he has a problem, and to do something about it. So you can either be a man, or just a bully.
2007-01-27 09:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from a gf's perspective, once you cross that line of physical abuse, there is no turning back, unless you get professional help. There is something inside of you that allowed you to physically abuse her, so don't blame her.... No matter what anyone says or does, man, woman, or child, it does not give that person the right to physically abuse them... & I am speaking from experience as my previous husband broke my nose, & shattered the bones in my face, & you know what? He STILL says it was my fault.... So look inside yourself as she has every right to be upset with you..... You supposedly love this girl? Let me put it this way, what if she was your little girl? What if she was your sister? Or your Mom? Would you want someone to physically abuse them?
I would hope not....
Get help... before it's too late.....
2007-01-27 09:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by Linda Jo V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is hurt that u hurt her, hurting people hurt people, maybe u should seek some therapy to see why u are doing what u are doing, if u don't eventually she will leave u. takes more than words sometimes, u have to show her u are sorry by your actions, talk is cheap. just have to give her time to get over it, and back off getting and expecting instant forgiveness, sometimes when we have been hurt, it takes a little longer for some than for others. your too impatient, want all the bad u did to just go away, but it doesn't work like that.
2007-01-27 12:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO SEE AN ANGER MANAGEMENT SPECIALIST RIGHT AWAY! Something is terribly wrong if you think it's justifiable to put your hands on another person for any reason. You can only emotionally and physically beat up on someone for so long. If your not growing towards the same goals in your lives, the relationship needs to end.
Best of Luck and PLEASE get your anger under control!
2007-01-27 09:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by trasista4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't erase the damage of your actions in 4 days, if ever. Feel lucky that she has anything to do with you at all and get some help, pal. Hopefully she will realize that you aren't worth her time, give you a swift kick and bail on your sorry a$$.
2007-01-27 09:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ande 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she said something so you hit her and even though you said sorry you want her to be all sweet to you after 4 days? I do not think your gf knows what to do, she loves you but is thinking she may have to walk on egg shells so she does not have to get hurt again. if ur gf was smart she would leave you because you hit her and that is wro ng
2007-01-27 11:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You messed up...BIG TIME. You have no right to even ask that she be "sweet" to you. You lucky she is even talking to you.Your lucky she didn't kill you in your sleep.
Leave the woman alone. You don't deserve her and you don't deserve to be treated in a "sweet" manner...She can be mean for the rest of your life and you have no choice but to be OK with it. You f*cked up. NOT her!!
2007-01-27 09:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You abuse her and then you expect her to be "sweet" to you again? What rock are you living under? If she's smart, she'll get as far away from you as possible. You need serious psychological help.
2007-01-27 09:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by tamminator2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You hit your gf, of course she is not being sweet to you... and if she does she will probably be pretending so you wont hit her again. You have lost her trust, you need to earn it back and NOT HIT HER EVER AGAIN or she will likely leave you as she probably should now.
2007-01-27 09:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋