Hii guys and girl, I need a big favor. Can any body help me out. I was married to my ex for 5 years. We do not have a kids.We divorce 5 years ago, I get married again and now I have 1 kid with my new wife. She was by herself all this time and I was having an affair with her (my-ex) 2 years ago for 1 year. After 1 year of affair she told me or I will be stay with her or come back to my "family". I decided to stay with my family. I allways see her in town, now she is telling me she will star dating a old friend of hers who has serious intention to married her and I'm confused. I do not want to accept she had the right to get a new life. I'm in pain 24h a day, I know is the right choice for her but my brain don't want to hear anything about her having another man. I can't work, I can't think. I start drinking but I know is not the solution to my problems. Can anybody please help me with a few advices. I will really appreciate your input to help me out.
Best regards.
Jack V
2007-01-27 01:05:55 · 19 answers · asked by Jack V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get over her, you have your life let her have hers , do not speak to her anymore you have no ties to her but you have a bond now with another woman who is now your wife and mother of your child. live in the present not the past or you will have two ex-wives.
2007-02-03 19:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by gospursgogo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Love Christmas, Im Sorry To Say But He Was Cheating And Decided He Liked Her More Now He Misses You And Is Trying To Make You Jealous So I Suggest That Find A New Special SomeOne And Make Him Want You Even More Love,Jaszie Paszie Love
2016-05-24 05:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife can help you get over your ex wife really fast Jack.
Shame on you for doing that to these two women and your child!
How would you feel if your current wife got her groove on with an ex like you are doing?
My ex made a home made video of himself with other women and after I filled for divorce, he checks my e-mail by what I believe to be a remote system. How sick. So glad I am divorced. If your current wife does not cheat on you, you should be happy that the ex wife is your ex because she sleeps with other peoples husband and she should be happy you are her ex because you are a cheater!
If you have a good woman, then stay with her and stop doing what you are doing. Good women are hard to find!
2007-01-31 13:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you're actually asking this? Are you for real? You are so selfish!!!!! Can't you put anybody else needs before your own? first of all, your child, wife, and ex. Not only you've cheated on your wife, but on your child, and on your ex. You need to let go, and concentrate on your family. Your ex need a life without you in it. If you can't decide or make a decision, whether or not to be her friend, and only her friend, then you need to remove yourself away from this situation. Think about your child. Listen to your heart. Those mind can play treats on you. make the right decision.
2007-02-03 07:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by qasizan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to let go........Its easier said then done, I know. I still have something for my ex.I don't know what it is but we have been apart for 2 yrs but divorced for 6 months and not 1 day goes by without me thinking of him........ I have a wonderful person in my life and I adore what he has done for me and my kids, yet I have so many unanswered questions about my ex that makes me feel as if I am STUCK on STUPID? (im not waiting for him to return,just want to hear from him that the kids and I meant something to him, and everything happened up to that very moment in our lives was the right thing for all of us?) Sorry if it didn't help but don't drink that can only lead you to losing everything.
2007-01-27 02:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by Skinz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reality check of course you don't want to see her with some one else she is your fall back.
Your reasons for not wanting her to be with some one else is completely selfish. You through her away not only once but twice. So boo hoo
You need to get over it. You made your decision now deal with it did you really think she was gonna wait around for a third time?
If you really can't deal with seeing her with some one else pack up and move it wont be in your face.
2007-02-03 07:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seriously need to cut off all contact with this person -- move to another town, if it helps. She is poison for your relationship and will cause you and your family nothing but pain and heartache. You claim that you put your priorities in line -- now act on that. Do what is best for your family, and stop living in the past.
2007-01-27 01:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm . Cheating on second wife and child and yes you are cheating on your kids also .First wife getting married whats there to think about go home to your kid. Look at your kid in the face and think about the child not you or your woman . Children come first
2007-01-31 14:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious Man ? You need to sort your priorities out & fast !! At this rate you are going to ruin the life of your current wife , your child & possibly your own.Move on ...keep away from your ex & devote yourself to the wife you're supposed to honour , cherish & obey !!!
2007-02-02 20:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jack you sound like you have some serious problems. Get a life and start asking God for some guidance, rest, and piece of mind.
2007-02-04 00:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mark T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋