I just think it is strange that we fancy who we do. What do others out there think about this.
2007-01-27 00:53:36 · 15 answers · asked by mystery8 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Does love exists anymore?.... this days when you ask what are you looking for a girl or a guy? people answer a tall and beautiful or handsome. Where did the love go, is love features this days.
The answer to what are you looking for in a girl or guy? I think it should be only love. Other than that you are looking for features, thats why people end up breaking up etc. Like Brut and Jennifer etc.
2007-01-27 01:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by mhshhaduw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read an article a few years ago now that claimed we look for qualities in a partner that remind us of our father (well for girls anyway, I assume it works the other way around also). Our father is the most major male role model we have from a very early age, and we feel most comfortable/happy etc if we emulate this.
I'm not too sure how this works with one-parent families though. The system is clearly not foolproof, ha!
2007-01-28 06:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's lot to do with chemistry. It must be, speaking from the female side of things, you look up and see a guy looking at you, hold the glace for a while; look down and then don't look up again.
Count to three and there he is asking you if he can sit and have a coffee. It works every time. No obvious flirting needed.
It's chemistry, the eyes, the look, later the personality. May be it will end in love. mmmmmm.
2007-01-27 09:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether we like or not we are still mammals - and one of our biggest instincts is to find a mate that will be suitable and is different enough from us - for us to feel attracted to. Attraction is a visual, smell and taste stimulus - that is what gives us LUST. Love and depth of emotion comes afterwards once we learn to listen and trust. There is another theory out there that reckons that subconsciously we are looking for someone that behaves in a similar way to your dad/ mom - so we can nurture them - but then...
2007-01-27 15:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not true always. if it was there would be no broken hearts.
And what about when you wake up beside someone after a one night stand, and think.. oh noo...
was the fancy-system out of order then?
2007-01-28 05:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by ezmeralda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The evolutionary process always favors diversity as the key to the survival of the species. Therefore, humans are "wired" genetically with many different visual/sensual "cues" that illicit a sexual response.
2007-01-27 09:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a scientific reson for why we love nd fancy people.it is just chemical in our brain that feels good.jus like when you eat chocolate but then again i look over the scientific reson and i wonder the answer to your question.
2007-01-27 11:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by summer shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a look at the wedding pictures in the local rag and see how similar the bride and groom's noses are for each couple.
2007-01-27 08:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by Del Piero 10 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fancy all the girlies so I am the wrong peson to ask !
2007-01-27 09:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by iain xx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i saw a programme once that claims it all to do with smell, and we are attracted to people who have a similar smell to us......... but having said that Ive never fancied anyone else who wears Brut
2007-01-27 09:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by thegolfingjunkie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋