this is a wonderful and fascinating question. i do believe that indeed there are soul mates. i dont believe that this is always your romantic partner. it can be a sister, a son, a person of the same sex but you will know. there is an easiness in your relationship. no need to prove anything because you know inside that your soul is treasured. everyone who comes into your life is sent to you or you to them. it is wonderful to find the stuff to share with each and every one. so yes, sometimes it feels as if we have chosen the wrong mate. there is order in the world . dont stress it. your soul and heart is open when a soul mate or twin flame comes into your space. i wish you joy and a good dose of wonder.
2007-01-27 01:36:29
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answered by diva44 2
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I believe in both...meaning I am with a man I was in love with 20 years ago when I was 15. We were not together back then but I had a major crush on him. In the past twenty years I saw him maybe around three times and everytime I slipped back to the time when I was 15. We are together now for the last 6 months and I can honestly say we are meant for each other. I can say it's fate and that we are soul mates, but on the other hand, we grew up in the same environment, went to the same school, have the similar friends and enjoy the same sort of life style...so it can go both ways.
Sorry for such a long answer. :)
2007-01-27 00:24:28
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answered by Mickey22_jp 3
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Well, it depends on what u believe in. Hindu mythology says that the mate is pre-determined (marriages are made in heaven). Infact it also says that everything about a person's is pre-determined by some Supreme Power which people call as God. Some people call this Supreme Power as Christ,some Rama etc.The scriptures say that Lord Bramha decides how the life of a certain should go on. We normally get the partners which we deserve but sometimes it isnt true as someone maynot get a good mate.it is then mythology says is due to the person's previous birth's karmas(deeds). & love doesnt depend whether u see the person or not. If its so,then no blind person should love anyone & no expectant mother will the child in her womb. But thats not the case. Love is blind & it should be consistent, flawless & there should be respect & regard towards that person.
2007-01-27 01:03:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Why should our ideal mate exist outside? No ideal has ever been realized. How can it? An ideal is your image of absolute perfection.
I think we in the West have been unconsiuosly influenced or conditioned in this by the stories of God seperating man into male and female, and of Zeus doing the same in Greek mythology. We therefore "long" for a re-union with the "seperated half of ourselves".
We all know that a man, even the most macho, has got the female side to himself (he does his best to hide this , considering it as a show of weakness, "thanks" to European culture) and a woman the male side to herself (which she has learned to utilize to survive without having to depend on a man).
This is because genetically-speaking, nobody is 100% of a particular sex. That forming the minority of that percentage will assert, and I will not be surprised if it is found -if it has not already - that the frequency of one acting or feeling like the opposite sex is proportionate to this.
The attraction between the sexes is purely physical.This is just Nature"s way to guarantee that the cosmic process is carried on. "Love" and "Soul" belong altogether to another dimension of man"s being.
2007-01-27 06:01:55
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answered by shades of Bruno 5
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I think a particlar body has a particular mate, as determined by the Lord Almighty. However, souls are...individual. The soul has the ability to interact with all other souls, if souls of course exist.
Marraige is a bondage of flesh, a social group for the sake of human survival. The human soul is willing to interact lovingly with all those souls it comes into contact with.
2007-01-27 01:41:50
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answered by Theophile 2
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Spoken like a true cynic Veronica. I believe that we all have designated soul mates, but it's almost impossible to find that one right person, which is why we usually end up settling for the next best thing. Love is the perfect bond of unity and if you truly love someone you should consider yourself blessed (not like loving your mother, of course!).
2007-01-27 00:47:51
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answered by fbiagent132002 2
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God is our in user-friendly words soul mate. that's the biggest relationship on your existence. Romantic love is a fantasy. that is a spectacular fantasy, yet a fantasy none the a lot less. there are possibly one hundred human beings you may have a valuable chuffed marriage with in this international. Being sparkling and polished merely makes it a lot extra reachable to be at liberty and valuable. Love is unconditional, yet staying with the guy you want is continuously conditional. surely particular human beings resonate extra strongly with particular others and could make a extra effective tournament. there is little doubt about that. particular human beings want particular human beings, and non secular human beings want religious human beings. that is what i imagine.
2016-12-03 02:47:22
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answered by duperne 4
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all animals us included have a specific mate genetically coded into them before they are born. Many however dont make it, which has a lot to do with how we end up with all the sub species. So even if they are 5 years younger, it will still be known; the subconsious mind isnt limited by the puny capablities of the human conscious mind.
2007-01-27 00:21:44
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answered by ByeBuyamericanPi 4
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I think that there is no such thing as a soul mate and love is so overrated.No one truly loves anyone they just think they do.
2007-01-27 00:21:55
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answered by Veronica 3
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Generally i think it's just partners with standards. soul mates don't really exist.
2007-01-27 00:19:32
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answered by Anonymous
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