i'm a 21 y.o. and am having problems with sex.... i have only tried like 5 times my whole life and succeeded once.... my main problem is that i can't keep it hard long enough to get off.... is there any way to help this? i don't wanna take those stamina pills cause i thought those were for people who get off too early...
2007-01-26 23:58:53 · 8 answers · asked by necroped 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
When I first started doing the doo, I had the same problem too. You don't need to see a docter about it, you just need to stop thinking so much when your doing it! I found that if I thought to much about pleasing my partner and not enough about how my member felt, I couldn't blow!!! Focus on the sensation that you are feeling and if you find a position that really works, stick with it! I am married and lately the problem has come back, but for the last couple of sessions the problem is solved!!!
2007-01-27 00:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It sounds you have more of a mental block due to over dosing of Religious reasons. You need to put your Religion in its rightful place. You are not doing a terrible sin when having sex. You are shrinking due to your guilt of having sex with a woman out of wedlock. This is a learn and programed process you need to get over. The only way to do that is to work hard on your mental state and understand that God will not come down and smite you down if you have relations out side of marriage. If he does there would be a lot less men in the world. So when you have the next chance to have sex with a partner remember that it is your health that is important and you will still go to heaven once you die.
2007-01-27 02:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about masterbation. Are you able to stay hard long enough then? If so, it could be a problem with the chemistry between you and your partner. Try a different position perhaps. Maybe you really aren't attracted to this person and you just want sex and they are willing.
If it happens during masterbation as well, then I'd see a doctor.
2007-01-27 01:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to kep your old man stiff when with a girl then get some help in the form of prelox blue. Its not in the shops and is only available online. This stuff wont alter your ejaculation times but it will keep you hard at all times during sex, it wont leave you with any nasty side effects either like viagra. you can order it at www.myhealthabcmall.com, its in the means health section and is excellent stuff. This will not only keep it up for you but gradually give the confidence to stop thinking about being hard whilst in the act.
2007-01-27 06:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by reggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems your a little unconfident about youself and not experienced enough. next time think about satisfiying yourself first
while your getting on.
2007-01-27 02:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by RC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Viagra or Cialis
2007-01-27 03:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An experienced partner cures you.
2007-01-27 01:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by J.SWAMY I ఇ జ స్వామి 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please see a doctor. A doctor can help you best with this issue.
2007-01-27 00:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by StarsYSL 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋