Where can I find an honest girl?

Question

My wife of 15 years left me for him again . Does the amish allow their women to marry outsiders? I will walk 100000 miles to find one that will not cheat. Never dated anyone exept my wife and not sure if I can trust ever again:( I think my ex has ruined it for me. I feel like I should have cheated on her so atleast i know whats its like. Please tell me that their is women still left that when a marriage turns to work that they work on it and not jump to the next boat. I know that guys are just as bad so you can vent on your cheating ex husband if u want!

Answer 1

are there any ?

Answer 2

Yes there are alot of honest girls out there that won't jump ship when times get rough. I have been married for 8 years and been through plenty of ups and down's. and I'm still on board.... I say better to find out now than later. My advise to you would be to round up some of the guys and go to the strip club, get a lap dance to break the ice then go hang out at a little intamate bar and talk to people. Even if you don't see anyone u might be intrested in, it will help just to have some conversation with some new people. Don't stay in and feel bad for yourself even though it's difficuilt put a smile on and some nice cloths and get out and mingle with some folks. Good luck!

Answer 3

I'm so sorry for you, I know how it feels to be cheated on, over and over again. When I married at the age of 19, I meant it for life. 18 years later I am still married, and never cheated. However, I am getting sick of his womanising, and ready to walk. So, in short, there is honest women out there. Hope you will find one soon. Regards, Penny.

Answer 4

don't let this breakup cheat u out of a future, yes there are many good women out there. but u have to have hope stop fearing that u will again be hurt, sometimes we do have to make ourselves vulnerable, and trust someone again, as it is really the only chance u have in getting what u want. just be a little bit more selective, check out a persons past, how they react to stress, their character, really get to know them. sometimes people get picked by what u see outwardly, but these aren't always the best choice, it is whats inside, its what is in their hearts that matters most. we can really never be sure of people,or how a relationship will work out, but before we commit we really need to take our time, and get to know them, and look at the way they conduct themselves, sometimes if we have a low self worth we open ourselves up to getting involved with the wrong ones, sometimes if we are in too much of a hurry we make rash judgments, and get into messes with our relationships. but we still have to get out there, and take that chance, and hope for the best.

Answer 5

I was married to a woman once, who claimed to be the most brutally honest human being on the planet. Yet, I caught her having an affair with my neighbor. She said it was a slight slip on her part and wouldn't do it again.

I was only married to this woman for 2 years and i spent 90% of my time away in the military. During our divorce my attorney did several background investigations on this woman.

What he uncovered was amazing, she had been married 6 times, I knew of one previous marriage, she had not divorced 5 of her previous spouses, and she had over 30 alias's (names she was known by).
She had 9 different social security numbers, 19 separate birth certificates with different parents listed. She had criminal convictions from 3 different states, she had absconded her probation and taken a new identity or remarried to hide from law enforcement.

She was a psycho. During our divorce this all came out and she ended up in prison she just recently was released on parole but is having to report daily to her parole agent/office.

Anyone you desire to get hooked up with you need to do a really good background investigation on because some of the women in the world today are really good at covering their tracks and past bad behavior.

Answer 6

There is always someone out there and she's not the one. Try start dating again. If someone has only been with one person and they stayed with that person forever then they are one of the extremely lucky few. You may end up going through several relationships until you find the right one. Just don't give up.

Answer 7

Iam sorry to hear your spouse cheated on you. Take this time to develop and work on yourself. The last thing you need is another realtionship. You should not allow this to hinder your ability to trust other woman, her distrustfulness is not a reflection on you. Remember that. And if you truly seek a good woman, then ask the Lord to bring you one, Church is a great place to start.

Answer 8

nope... I've heard allot of talk and I've seen a lot of things and no matter what people will always have a natural curiosity about -- what if? now weather they act on it or not is the question. finding some on that is happy with themselves would be the first thing in finding someone. next i would try and see how she carries herself. does she put effort into making you happy not just on special days . i think that both men and women forget that "whatever you did to keep your lovers attention, you will have to do the same thing to keep that attention throughout the relationship"

so look for some one that will do thing for you no matter rain or shine.

Answer 9

I am sorry, there are a lot of honest people out there, you just have to take a chance and get to know them over time. Good luck

Answer 10

There are a lot of honest people in the world.
I haven't found any yet, but that's what I keep hearing.
I think they exist in there own mind.
there are a lot more cheaters and liars.

Answer 11

ofcorse they exist and if she is a cheat and makes you feel like this she wasn't worth being with from the beginning! just take your time to find somebody new, and when you find someone - treat her like a princess! good luck.