.Oh Jetsam, I am happy for you. There is no use staying in a relationship that was not working ,where you were not happy and she probably wasn't either. This is a brand new start to your life,a way to finally be happy like you deserve. That was the best possible outcome, I am so glad that the relationship ended on what can be considered good terms. Life should never be spent with someone that does not have your whole heart,be happy my friend,be free.
2007-01-27 04:24:22
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answered by Wish 6
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I have been with the same man for 6 years, and we have been through some upsetting times. Near death experiences. Lost 2 houses, along with personal items that can't be replaced. He lost his father, which was his mentor. I have cried my eyes out at one point or another at all these things. I have yet to see him shed one tear, or even act the slightest bit bummed out. I understand putting up a front in front of others due to self pride, but I am not a "others". So I don't have an answer for you. Sorry.
2007-01-26 23:06:12
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answered by Juj4ever 2
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Not without a tear...but, yes. After over 11 years it was just time to move on. (It was not the best relationship, with constant betrayal.) That was in May...I'm still trying to sort it all out and move on. It's very hard when you've been with the same person that long.
I can't offer advice, but I can empathize. Hang in there...it'll come when you're ready.
2007-01-26 23:33:19
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answered by Enchanted 7
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Wow that's hard ! So sorry to hear that. Now you need some chocolate ice cream and a few days of quiet time to reflect. Then dust your self off stand up straight tell the truth and get on with your life! It will get better, it will take a few days for the feeling to wear off.
2007-01-26 23:08:07
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answered by Star of Florida 7
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I'm so sorry! I have been with my husband for 15, and i cry at least once a month! You know thet say tears come with passion, so maybe the break up happened for a good reason. Try to take it easy!
2007-01-26 23:15:38
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answered by Pardonne Moi? 2
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Yeah, oddly enough.
Take heart, because of that relationship I was able to find Mr Right (without even really trying) because I was able to better define what I wanted and needed in a relationship after that one! So don't worry, just be you and you will get what you need.
All the Best.
2007-01-26 23:04:20
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answered by Maple Leaf 7
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You already responded your question candy coronary heart. he's speaking approximately marriage no longer you 2 are speaking approximately it. i became interior a similar boat as you have been. I basically have been given out of a 5 12 months dating and that i began dating somebody and we've been given severe very rapidly. We have been dating for 2 months while this individual had to get married to me and that i for my section concept approximately it and that i found out that even nevertheless I did love this individual i had to work out if this could final. I broke it off and now i'm married, and attempting to have a splash one with somebody else and we've been mutually for 2 and a nil.5 years. while i think of returned on it I rushed into issues because of the fact I neglected the sensation of ways severe my previous dating became and that i wanted that comparable feeling of convenience and that individual had no longer been in a dating as long as I had and that they had to adventure it too. What they did no longer adventure became all of the complicated paintings it takes to get to that factor. So my suggestion to you is to hold off. think of roughly your self and in case you could actual see your self spending something of your existence with this individual. don't be with somebody basically because of the fact which you're afraid to be on my own have faith me.
2016-11-27 21:50:19
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answered by fuchser 4
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Wow. I am sorry to hear about it. Funny thing is everything happens for a reason and you'll soon see. Stick close to your friends. Atleast the breakup sounds mutual. I guess it could be worse right. Good luck, and chin up.
2007-01-26 23:05:52
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answered by jipp 5
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Wow....no. I had an 8 year one that ended with tears. Maybe this was for the best then?? Best of luck to you - you will do just
fine :)
2007-01-26 23:01:17
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answered by ♥Care♥ mommy 2 my boys 5
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I have been in love with the same woman for almost 12 years....I hope it ends soon because she lives in another state.
2007-01-26 23:06:13
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answered by Anonymous
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