2 years we had chat and i told him the lie that i divorce becouse i wanted to know if i do what would change in our relation 10 days ago he said me that he loves me too and want to meet me in real in that time i saud the truth to him and he left me but i cant live without him. actually i'm not sure about his feeling too. if i divorce i lose my son. for that reason it is a big risk and i must be sure about him but he doesnt hear me
2007-01-26 22:52:54 · 9 answers · asked by ruth_8484 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
count your blessings that you are married and that your husband does not know. Go back to your husband and pray to your god for forgiveness, you have hurt your own relationship during this time. he probably also thinks about you the man that is italian and you will to, for some time, but you have lied to him. Stop taking gambles with your life. think you have a son and your son needs you in his life.. you have a husband and he is supporting you and you are eating. In my opinion in order for your relationship to be blessed you have to be free by your city's laws. that means you need to divorce, otherwise no relationship will be blessed. I am sure you might have your reasons for betraying your husband's trust. But do those reasons or faults of your husband match on the laws against God, or does he force you to sin against your God, Do you remember your wedding vows. you are right it is a big risk...for the both of you.
2007-01-26 23:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by bankone1111 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you crazy? If you are not divorced then stay with your husband and son. You your self has answered the question, when you are not sure of his(Italian Man) feelings then let go of him.
2007-01-27 06:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by anecentric 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i fell inlove to a married man too, same thing NET. He said he's having a devorce with his wife and almost 2 years now i'm still inlove wih him. and he loves me too. the problem with youre was you never been truth. you should be honest to people you meet, not immidiately i mean after awhile like when you chat with him like weeks
2007-01-27 07:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by the choosen1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey ruth . i am prashanth by chatting in computer no body will tell truth. me also. if we get any online boy or girl in online we will be very happy . we forget ourselves . dont leave him take him to the coart. he gave u a child also. dont divorce him.
2007-01-27 07:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by paul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're a horrible person for having a second relationship behind your husband's back.
Maybe you should spend more time with HIM. You married him, after all!!!!!!!
2007-01-27 06:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by uabsupercow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you have developed an impossible dream here. stick with what you have and stay off the internet so you won't get in anymore trouble.
2007-01-27 07:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go and find your true love
but do not have too high hope about somebody you never met
maybe your true love is what you has now in Iran
2007-01-27 07:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by kimht 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
please stick to your current partner as he has supported you till date.
internet love cannot be predicted. very risky. think about it?
why ruin your good life and then think about your child what has he done to deserve this?
2007-01-27 06:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by AMD 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you have an husband and a son why do you ever think of another man, even after he went away.............lol
2007-01-27 07:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by astiffman 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋