hey pls HELP??????????

Question

ahem ahem my friends in serious trouble. She thinks she's fat & i kno she isnt , but what she really wants is that size 2 figure i warned her that it might be dangerous but she wont budge she has started taking LAXATIVES. And has asked me not to mention this to her parents or else she'll forfeit our frndship PLS HELP!!!!!

Answer 1

Either way you are going to lose a friend.

If you tell she will be angry.

if you do not tell and she starves herself to death; you will feel awful for not telling.

Tell her parents. They need to know before she becomes a staticitic.

You need to think "What is in the best interest for my friend" and don't worry about the consequences.

Answer 2

this friend is in need of some serious help. unfortunatly those with eating disorders ( this is a form of bulemia it's just pooping it out instead of throwing it up) are usually the last to notice that they need help. start off by telling her the facts about laxative use. they will dehydrate you which is why it seems that you are losing weight, it is all water. and by the time the food reaches your intestines and is expelled, your body has absorbed the calories anyway. her best bet is a sensible diet and excercise if she truely feels like she needs to lose weight. if she continues her bad health decisions, you MUST tell someone. she may hate you for it at the time, but an ex friend is better than a dead friend.

Answer 3

Better you lose a friend than your friend lose her health. This practice is dangerous because she will seriously upset her bowels to the point that she won't be able to have a bowel movement without the laxative. She can also cause her electrolytes to become affected and that will really cause her trouble. You tell her if she doesn't tell her parents, you will because you're more concerned for her health...and that means she'll be losing a beautiful friend. Godloveya.

Answer 4

Oh my God. Your friend should come over here to Ghana and get a taste of what I got. I am a size zero if there ever was one. I tried on a size one dress and it fell off my shoulders. I am super skinny and am trying my damn best to gain weight. In Africa, men like their women to have something they can hold onto. They expect a girl like me to have a huge *** and huge boobs. Unfortunately for me I have the figure that most American models would kill to have.

Your friend is slowly killing herself with what she is doing and I feel so sorry for her. To think that I am trying to look bigger while someone perfect is trying to get smaller. She would probably say the same to me. I think you should try to talk to her one last time and if she doesn't listen, find a way to talk to her folks. You have to make a choice between your friendship and her health if she does not stop what she is doing. oh yeah, her condition is called Bulimia Nervosa and it is killing hundreds of American girls every year. In Africa and Asia, so many people do not have the luxury of food. It is really sad to hear of people dying of hunger when they have everything they need for a balanced meal.

Before you go to her parents, try getting her to exercise with you. Go jogging with her and get her to change her diet to include lots of fruits and veggies and get her to drink lots of water. Getting her to change her eating and exercise habits should help her get the figure she wants in a healthier way but she should come to realize that she's healthier when she's not taking laxatives. If you try this, and she doesn't come arund and keeps doing that to herself, then pls be a good friend and sacrifice your relationship for her health. If she means that much to you, I guess you can stomach the loneliness, simply knowing that you helped save her life.

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Answer 5

If you are truly concerned about her you wouldn't be a very good friend if you didn't tell someone. Laxatives can cause long term damage and her body will become dependent on them. Could you handle the guilt of no telling if something terrible happens?

Answer 6

Friendship includes the desire to protect one against danger and harm even if it's from themselves. Tell your school in psychologist in confidence and let her handle the situation with your friends parents. Maybe she wont have to reveal how she came to acquire this knowledge and your friend can get the help she needs.

Answer 7

What is size 2 figure baby i dunno, but I luv buxoms and God hs programmed babes to luk like hell ( or heaven if it seems better) and not skins and bones.
Seen the Goddess figures on temples or artists paintings! They paint buxoms and not bundle of bones.
If your frnd is serious about her wt see should see a dietician talk to frndz ( includes bf's) and parents or go to professional.
Why u worry it seems she is a hypochandriac and overreacts. Let her take her laxatives she will soon b pale faced, dry skinned, enervated poor baby .
Self help is not always bet remedy !

Answer 8

would you rather her hate you for a lil bit than her endangering herself? I would tell her parents, not matter what she says. Laxitives are very dangerous. If her parents dont tell her then you can say that you couldnt just stand there and watch her go through it.

Thats all you can really do, just stick by her, her parent will help her as much as they can.

Answer 9

HI anu wat u r facing is a normal problem faced by any frnd. This is ur time 2 proove ur frndship. Tell ur friend that this is anorexia inform her about thi recent death cases of models in this respect expain it to her that such a feeling is due to lack of confidence. Try to increase here confidence ,ter her one should love his/her body the way it is.try taking her to a nutritionist to get a proper guiadance scientifically.if all this fails do wat is right and tell this to her parents.
BYE t.C.

Answer 10

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