at first he tells that he will not tell anything wrong .but at last any how he reachesto the matter of sex.i feel incomfortable.but istill love him.and he too i dont know what he wants ?me or just sex
2007-01-26 22:34:53 · 19 answers · asked by bini 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
LEAVE HIM THE PERSON HAVING ILL MIND.
2007-01-28 03:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of these answers make it seem that one cannot enjoy sexual relationships and be in love at the same time.
Obviously, sex and love are not mutually exclusive, he might just have a strong sex drive, lots of hormones, etc. That doesn't mean he can't love you at the same time.
He might also want to play basketball with the guys a lot... it's just something that he enjoys doing. He's still friends with the guys when they're not shooting hoops.
If he doesn't want to talk to you anymore and always leaves right after sex, then it's a different situation.
2007-01-27 07:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by Alex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Love is more than physical relationships..
If you want a lasting relationship, pls note 1)it has less to do with sex and 2) It involves more friendship and understanding..
Perhaps this point could be the reason for making or breaking of LOVE MARRIAGES
GOD BE WITH YOU IN YOUR DECISION !
2007-01-27 06:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by Narasimhan G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is a natural phenomina.but it should depend on ur case and see wether u both r ok then no problem but one is not interested dont do.u can wait and see the results in a short time by not allowing.as sex sometimes increases the love between both fo u and if he wants sex only then he will say goodbye after having sex in a short time.
2007-01-27 06:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by FLAWS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly its probly a combination of both! just because a guy wants sex, doesnt mean that all hes after usually (only the a' holes pull that) tell him it bothers you all he talks about is sex, and try getting him to talk about other things, also if you two are having sex, tell him you want the sex to stay i the bedroom so that you two can enjoy other things that you do.
2007-01-27 06:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by hardwood_flooring_wi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be telling you he loves you just to soften you up for sex... Then again he may really be confused about the difference between being in love or just wanting sex... Just stand your ground and don't give in until you want to or feel it is real...
2007-01-27 06:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all how old are you b/c if you are still in high school you should not be think about sex. that should be the last thing on your mind. and his. the only the thing you can do is tell him who he feel in or out of hight school that all i get for you.
2007-01-27 09:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by little devil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He don't like you. He just like sex. You have to be very carefull.He want to share your bed and have sex with you after that,he will definitely leave you. He loves your body not the human inside you.
BELIEVE ME.
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2007-01-27 06:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by good guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if he is talking about physical relationship and sex then trust me that he does not love you.He only wants your body and after he sleeps with you and satisfies his lust he will no longer be interested in you.....I am telling you to trust me cos even i am a guy and i know what is lust and what is love.So take this advice better be far away from this guy
2007-01-27 06:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by rocky j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell ur state of mind to him & make him clear that some moments can be enjoyed in other ways also.Ways which are beyond physical relationship
2007-01-27 06:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by Sania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give him what he wants for a while and see what happens, it may be that he just feel comfortable talking about it with you. I would keep him hanging on for a couple of weeks and see what happens, dont always give in to him
2007-01-27 06:39:55 · answer #11 · answered by Aisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋