i cook clean an try to go to work
2007-01-26 22:11:05 · 15 answers · asked by dakka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am with Josie.is your wife just lazy or could she have something wrong with her?
2007-01-27 01:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have sex, you take on the responsibility of being a parent, plan and simple. We have to work or we don't eat, you have to clean so you don't live like a pig, and cook so you eat. Unfortunately we can't all have a personal slave. Who says a mother or father is defined by who cooks and who works anyways? Many women and men do both everyday. Every single person does it.
2007-01-27 06:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by BrutalNerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that you are a married man. I would say that you have a bum for a wife and she is taking advantage of your good nature. I would have a talk with my wife and tell her she needs to pull her own weight in the realtionship. Also, is your wife clinically depressed? Some women have problems with that, especially after the birth of children, screws up their hormones. She may need to see a doctor and get some medication. Don't let this problem fester any longer, you will just become more resentful and the marriage will break down beyond repair.
2007-01-27 06:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what we call responsibility with our children. If you can never be a mum in the absence of your wife who do you think will do the task only performed by mothers. Can you ask your 1 year old child to cook for him/herself. That's why we have parents to take care of us in our early years. Why not get a nanny if you have enough to pay for her service. If you have not, you have no choice... you have chosen to marry and have children and doing what you are doing is a reward. Don't loose hope, you'll get the price someday when you raise them right! UUU
2007-01-27 06:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cus u jumped into a relationship that wasnt right. move on dude, why are u crying about it on the internet? go improve urself so u can find a person who is a quality parent to ur kids and the significant other that u really want. maybe u need to sit down and realize the quality that the person would have then go date them.
2007-01-27 06:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by Matt G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was your choice to be a parent. Our choices don't always work out the way we thought they would but our children will always need our love and care. Be happy that you have a child to love and love you. Never regret having a precious gift.
2007-01-27 06:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she is what ya call unfit to be a mother, if your doing everything else, tell her to go get a fulltime job, to pay for a baby sitter atleast so you can go to work at your job, it will save you future arguements i believe. but I could be wrong
2007-01-27 06:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by hardwood_flooring_wi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called luck of the draw or your lot in life. sometimes it stinks but you deal with it.or in my case,.im married with a executive wife. same basic idea ...mr. mom. been around for ages.
2007-01-27 06:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happened to me 2 with first attempt at a wife.
she was a deadbeat... we need to move on.
You will find a true love someday trust me i did
2007-01-27 06:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think cuz u dont have ur partner with u at the time!
2007-01-27 06:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by TARA_K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋