And, have you ever broken up with someone because they wouldn't give it up?
*By the way -- I'm not asking for advice for myself. Just trying to get some opinions. I'm happily in a relationship, so I don't want to hear any answers about how I should "wait until I'm ready" or anything like that*
2007-01-26 22:05:06 · 18 answers · asked by justsumchickie1 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting it right away or waiting. Everyone has different needs ... and if two people's needs clash then its probably best not to be together. It doesn't make one person more upstanding then another.
2007-01-26 22:16:15 · update #1
I stopped dating, skip the fore play and head on we bangin'! saves time money n' heart breaks. well, except for disease. Am only being honest about myself.
2007-01-26 22:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by Another face in the crowd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unbelievable as it sounds, I never dated a girl with the expectations of sex, but because they had a sense of humour, could converse reasonably intelligently about most things, enjoyed the movies, going for long walks and enjoying life. I've been married for 29 years and my wife has all these attributes - except for expectations of sex. The expectation is part and parcel of our loving relationship. Go well, and God Bless!
2007-01-26 22:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by Scabius Fretful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest any guy wants it right away. But usually I just wait until she's ready then the rest is history. And no haven't dumped any girl over something like that before. That would make me an ***.
2007-01-26 22:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by WGDK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What time is it?
Depends on the situation, each "flower" is different and needs all sorts of individual attention.
How long should a guy be expected to wait for the girl?
2007-01-26 22:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys will be guys. And for the most part they want sex as soon as possible. BUT you already know this as you are dating or have dated in the past before you got hooked up with your present guy. And for your second question YES.
2007-01-26 22:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless you are a sex maniac you expect sex at the very first date... however, both should make a decision if they are on to it and not bothered by their conscience. UUU
2007-01-26 22:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how each like the other. No specific time. Because as soon as there is a dislike you just break up.
2007-01-26 22:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by charles g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at my age if it feels right do it, if the lady doesn't want sex and I enjoy her company I would continue to go out with her but not have a "relationship"
2007-01-26 22:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No limit. If it was a meaningful relationship then there was no need for sex. I just had to be that much more charming to get some.
2007-01-26 22:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
some girls right away other not till marriage, depends what you want either sex or relationship and depends on the girl.
2007-01-26 22:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋