his ex wife...or me
his ex wife..could not deal with him...so she left...after just 6 mnths of marriage. She has been with the guy she left him for ..for almost 5 yrs.
I've known and been in love with him for 4 years.
We've only been together for about 8 mnths.
We've lived together for about 2 yrs..have been having sex almost as long...but there was always some reason why we weren't together..and yes..his feelings for his ex...but we've been together 8 mnhts..and were getting married this april.....after seeing her..and theyve been emailing each other...he is confused.
Can he really love the both of us....or did he ever really get over her in the first place?
I've done everything for him and he's a hard person to deal with...he has a bad addiction..mood swings...but i've stuck by him through everything..and it seems like he always rejects me. IS it possible that he really is in love with me and seeing her just brought back old feelings. or is it more likely that they'll be
2007-01-26 21:05:00 · 8 answers · asked by Starla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
together. I love him soo much. He's the world to me. I've always loved him. What do i do...besides move on..what do I do...to win him over? I have to try atleast.
2007-01-26 21:05:48 · update #1
If you haven't convinced him after this much time to love you, and want to be with you, it's NOT going to happen. You could literally give him the blood that flows in your veins, and it would not convince him. If he loves his ex, and is not willing to move on without her, you're "fighting a losing battle". For your own sanity, you need to leave him behind, and move on in your own life.
2007-01-26 21:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hon, but the truth is he can still have feelings for her. That's if she's the same person that she was when they were together, because some of her qualities will still attract him. That's what brought them together in the first place. Go with your gut instinct. This is a time where you use your heart, not your head.
2007-01-26 21:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you not been trying all this time you have been together to win him over? I do not know what else you could possibly do to convince him. He is going to have to want to on his own. You cannot make him or convince him. If he has a bad addiction, I would ask myself why I would want to be with someone who has an addiction.
2007-01-26 21:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a choice Honey, either you "love him" that much, along with his mood swings and the shadow of his ex, or you leave him and get into a better relationship.
2007-01-26 23:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got rid of my moody husband and wouldn't want that for anyone. How can you love or for that matter like a person like that? You may be supprised at how much happier you are without an *** in your life, I say let her have him. Won't last anyhow.
2007-01-26 23:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
X's?? Oh that never goes away.. I can tell you that from 10 years later... The memory is always still there.. its diminished.. but its still there.. I wount even consider re-marriage because of that..
2007-01-26 21:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't win people. if you love him, let him go and be happy, if that's what he wants... that is what true love is about.
2007-01-26 21:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by luckylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he still can
2007-01-26 21:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋