Here's the problem I've been working for this place for over 3 years and he came to work there 5 months after I did. I advanced quicker since I had been there longer. I'm the boss and he works directly under me. We argue alot about what happens at work at home, and sometimes we bring home problems to work. I need so that we can both continue to work together and have our home life.
2007-01-26 20:38:35 · 10 answers · asked by jackie105v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You will have to leave work, at WORK, not bring it home with you! If unable to do that, for whatever reason, this marriage will not survive unless somebody changes jobs.
2007-01-26 20:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The biggest problems in my marriage started when I got my wife a job in the place I worked at because of the wages. The money she made was little compared to the problems it created. If I could go back I would and, just pull our belt a little tighter and bite the bullet instead of getting her that job.
I don't think, after looking at all the couples that had problems at our place, couples should work together. The place said they would never hire married couples again. They thought they were doing families a favor. Instead they created a monster that broke up families, created wife swapping, cheating, on the job sex, you name it, it went on. This is not to speak about the problems that are brought home and the jealousy created.
2007-01-27 07:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a special kind of couple that can live AND work together. Especially if one is the others boss...I think one of you should get a different job. Probably him since you're in a higher position. Most couples can't deal with being in each others face 24/7.
2007-01-27 04:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for couples counseling. It sounds as though he resents your position of authority at work, and you may be "taking the boss home". You need to set some boundaries in your relationship about job and home; what happens at the job, stays at the job. What happens at home, stays at home. You may also have to make a difficult decision about work; one of you may have to leave this particular workplace to keep the domestic harmony. Get the counseling, before the relationship ends in a nasty blowup at work. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-27 06:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Judy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to try and separate your working and private relationships - this of course is not easily done. Draw up some ground rules so that one doesn't encroach on the other. Otherwise the only solution is to be moved at work so that you are not in the same department/division.
2007-01-27 05:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by bovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to reach an agreement that what happens at work, stays at work. If you guys continue bringing this stuff up at home, you'll end up ruining your relationship. You guys either need to agree to keep that stuff at work, or someone needs to find another place to work.
2007-01-27 05:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by ForeverAnAngel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only one thing that can fix that and that is one of you have to find another job, period. My choice would be him since you've been there longer. He should have known better then to go get a job where you work at.
2007-01-27 05:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...
most companies wont allow this because of this type of problem...
It is very hard to separate things, but unless you can do it, both will fail.
Sit with him and make a plan - good luck !
2007-01-27 05:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by luckylady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you BOTH can not communicate calmly about your problems, then get seperate homes.
2007-01-27 06:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by mike o 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MAKE HIM HAPPY AT HOME
MENS R LIKE TAT ,IF THIS HAPPENS TO ME ,IWILL ALWAYS BE FIGHTING WITH HER
JUS MAKE HIM HAPPY
MEN R ALWAYS JEALOUS
2007-01-27 04:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by POLO 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋