Every morning, look in their eyes and say, "Amazing...every day I wake up, you're still the love of my life!" and smile. Send flowers to work with a card that reads, "I want the world to know I love you with all my heart." Hold hands in public. .Come up behind your spouse, hug them from behind, and kiss him/her on the neck. Clean the house. Call the babysitter for the kids, and PAY the babysitter yourself. Take him/her to a restaurant that doesn't have the combo meal. Argue kindly; don't lash out at him/her personally. Plan your new home together. Plan your financial life together, even if it's boring. Learn not to nag; learn to suggest and compliment. Be a happy person; it's contagious. Take the children out yourself on an outing; it lets your spouse know you're emotionally committed to the relationship. Acknowledge their personhood, and applaud their accomplishments. Speak well of them to others; don't complain about them. Keep the lines of communication open; listen with your heart, not your ears. Most importantly, every day you look at them, acknowledge to him/her and yourself that, through the highs and lows, there's noone else you would rather be with. Then stick to that belief. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-26 23:05:16
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answered by Judy W 3
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Follow the Rule of 3 for a happy marriage
Three times a week an intentional touch (or make love) but I mean really touch, deep hug, caress the hair or rub the back.
Three times a week praise. Something. Anything. Thanks for finding my remote, you always take care of me, I appreciate you helping the kids with homework.........raise the praise, minimize the criticize.
Three times a week make dinner and sit down together.
Now some people may think 3 times a week isn't enough, but too many couples don't do anything at all and the days slide by without touching.
PS I also think you ALWAYS say goodbye when you leave and hello when you come in. Always. Every time. Makes people feel special.
2007-01-27 04:27:46
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answered by donny_mollysmom 3
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Listen if your spouse is a female.
Talk about his favourites if it is a male.
2007-01-27 03:59:01
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answered by ss 2
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i cook my hubby breakfast in bed every saturday morning, i suprise him by showing up at his job and take him to lunch, i put cute little love notes in his briefcase every morning before he leaves for work and i call him several times a day just to say i love you and he does the same for me but he also brings me flowers home after work and he rubs my feet :)
2007-01-27 04:11:25
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answered by me 5
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Hi Cassidy, Divorce him.
Clowmy
2007-01-27 03:58:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Walking naked around the house...no am kidding do simple thing like buy roses or leave some romantic notes when she wake up ...etc
2007-01-27 07:27:24
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answered by secret &trade 4
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kiss them all over their face. :)
2007-01-27 03:58:01
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answered by MEESH 3
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