ok i think i have a crush on someone but im not sure.. the think is
that he is the same sex as me.. like when ever i dont see him i just really think about him.. i havent seen him in over a week because i was sick... i know i sound like a little wuss but i dont know.. i never felt this feeling before... but im scared to talk to him now that this is happening... the crush started when we were 4 wheeling together and he was really holding on to me.. and when i let him drive he told me to do the same thing... that was the most awsome weekend and i am aware that i am bi but why him? he is one of my BEST buddies and we can talk about anything... but this.... so what do you think i should do about this thing... just let it go and not tell him or tell him... but what if he just laughs at me... and oh yea he doesnt know im bi... so tell me what ya think alrighty
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2007-01-26 19:42:28 · 5 answers · asked by Exco12 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am not gay, or bi, but one of my best friends is gay. Nearly the same thing happened with him and one of his best friends. He ended up telling the friend (who knew that he was gay), and now they arent friends anymore.
I dont really think that I would just jump into it and say something like "Hey dude, I have a crush on you," or whatever but I for sure think that you should tell him that you are bi....then that could lead to the rest of the little talk that you want to have.
2007-01-26 19:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by Julie L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think personally u shud tell him if hes ur best friend hed understand...the best way to say it is just tell him u really need to talk to him and its just been on ur mind, and see how he reacts if he doesnt really seem too intrested dont tell him u liek him but if he seems ok with it wait a litlle while till he gets use to the whole thing..and soon when u think its time to tell him the way ur feelign about him then do it but only when u really feel like it...
just make sure he understands the whole thing 1st so he doesnt get freaked out or ne thing lol
2007-01-27 06:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you bi or do you think you are bi because you like this guy? sometimes when you are so close to someone you tend to confuse your feelings. if he is not bi or gay you would just be disturbing the waters, just let it go.
2007-01-27 04:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol..hot...well, mabye you and this guy have a really strong relationship and sometimes yur brains links that feeling to admiration...or even love...
Just continue to be this guy's bud and let things play out...they usually end up where they re supposed to be.
2007-01-27 05:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Celebrity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mm... i think u shouldn't.. u'll lose ur best friend.... why? if u can just let it go! time 'll help.... keep quet bout that, i think it's better 4 u... i don't think he will like that!
good luck
:~)
2007-01-27 11:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by rrru888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋