i m a mmrried man, 40 years old, i have been working with my collegue for 10 years now, throughout this period i felt that i lpve her, she is 37 married. is that real love????? yesterday i told her about all of that stuff, she was understandable, and she said that was ok and she loves me as a friend!!!!!!! i m confused, does she love me????? plz help seriously.
2007-01-26 19:21:10 · 15 answers · asked by dflp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get over it. You are just infatuated with the colleague. Get home to your wife and improve your marriage. As a matter of fact, it is probably your fault that your marriage is at the point that you are telling some other woman that you love her. QUIT BEING SO SELFISH AND FRIGGIN WORRY ABOUT SOMETHING ELSE --- LIKE YOUR WEDDING VOWS. YOU MAKE ME SICK. YOU ARE A NARCISSISTIC PIECE OF TRASH AND YOU DON'T DESERVE YOUR WIFE. GO TO HELL, CREEP.
2007-01-26 20:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by j_mang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want serious answer?...well seriously at 40 you should be able to figure out this by yourself! you married...she's married...tis normal to develope feelings for another over such a long time....dont get confused between 'collegue; love & the love that made you marry your wife! Time to pick up some loose ends & have a revival in you married life! LAstly she loves you as a FRIEND.
2007-01-26 19:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yer an A**hole can i make it any clearer? I dont have anything against extra martial sex mind you.. (never had a monogamous relationship in my life.. but everything was upfront and known all along and agreed upon.. and the SHE had the same rights..) YOU sir are just a DICK (and thats only cuz i cant think of a worse word)
You should be shot . hung , posioned and stabbed.. yer just another lyinging cheating sack of S**T and you give the rest of us males a bad name... do the honorable thing.. go hang yerself in a closet will you? (Nahh never happen you havet got the cajones for that)
Oh and YES my answer is TOTALLY serious...
2007-01-26 19:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did'nt you hear what she said? She loves you like a friend, nothing more there is a big difference between IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE from LOVES YOU ALSO. (See example)...... Being in Love is honesty, even if you know that it will hurt that person, communication, understanding, grateful, respectful, affectionate, without a doubht would not look at another like he/she looks and you, a good listener, not opinionated, your best friend. Love You Too..... (Example).....I love to dance, I love that song, I love popcorn, I love his scent, ect...... She was just flattered but does not feel the same as you think you feel about her, Move On and just be co-workers
2007-01-26 20:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She was just being caring to you. She would have sued you for sexual harrassment. Love is a basic need and does not discriminate. Sit down and evaluate your feelings and write down all your worries and desires and questions. Then answer it when you are sober and really thoughful. Write down all the consequences and how you are going to deal with all these problems. Good luck
2007-01-26 19:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she told you she only loves you as a friend, than thats what she means! Back off, If she wants more she will make the next move.
2007-01-26 19:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she considers herself a good friend to you. So...I suggest you back up and just be her friend. Don't keep trying to pursue anything. She is married and you don't wanna go there.
2007-01-26 19:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i wanna be a greater advantageous christian so im commencing with song!!!" That makes fairly no experience, i'm hoping you be attentive to that. listening to christian song does no longer make you a "greater advantageous" christian. What you do once you circulate away the sermon makes you a christian. And it is, in actuality, a extreme answer.
2016-09-28 01:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both married???! oh come on!.. im sorry but she doesnt love you. ok? its clear that she loves you only as a friend. nothing more, nothing less! stick to your wife.
2007-01-26 20:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by m0cca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment its as perennial as the grass.
2007-01-26 19:23:41 · answer #10 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋