2007-01-26 19:14:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't dream of telling you not to do it.If you truly love your partner than there is no reason not to.Marriage isn't has hard has some people would lead you to believe.You just need to remember a few things.
1. Show your partner love and respect.
2. Marriage isn't a game.Meaning you don't have to always win.Weather it be at an argument or anything else.
3. You now make decisions for two not just one.Before you run out and do something that will effect your live or lively hood.You have to consult your spouse.
4. Put your partner first.Not your friends or parents.
5. You aren't going to always see eye to eye.This doesn't mean your aren't met to be together.It just means no two people are alike nor do they have the same taste,opinions,etc..
2007-01-27 09:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you love her, not just "in love" with her. I'm assuming you understand the difference if you are even contemplating marriage....
Also remember that marriage isn't always 50-50, sometimes it's 80-20, 40-60... you get the point. Just be there for her when she needs you and know that someday the roles could be reversed and that once you take those vows it's for better or for worse. So don't do it until you KNOW for SURE you are willing to make that commitment.
And one more VERY important thing! "Cold Feet" is not something that everyone gets. IF you really love someone you will know that spending the rest of your life with them is the right thing. You will know that you would rather live a "complicated" life with them, than live an "easy" life with out them. If you are getting or do get "cold feet" then you should not write it off, you should take that as an indication that you are not ready yet, and do not be afraid to postpone things until you know for sure. IF your partner really loves you they will understand, if they don't understand, then you made the right decision by calling it off anyways! Good Luck and Congratulations!!! :)
2007-01-26 19:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by LaDyLuCk 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you are ready and this is the person that you would want to spend the rest of your life with. You also have to be willing to accept this persons faults because this is who she is and she is not going to change. So if there is something about her that really bothers you you are going to have to live with that for the rest of your lives. Marriage can be a beautiful wonderful thing with the right person.
2007-01-26 19:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is about not being selfish so if your world revolves around you don't do it.Also if you want freedom don't do it wait.Marriage is a life long comment and is not a game and will affect the rest of your life so wt the Pro's and cons for yourself.
2007-01-26 19:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by amber 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if u love someone and they feel the same way then get married if u dont then put it off awhile..good luck
2007-01-26 19:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by tootsieroll1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are totally committed to spending your whole life with that person, even if things get really bad. And make sure they feel the same about you. If you don't, it won't work. Period.
2007-01-26 19:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by littlechrismary 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is all about compromise....and give and take.
Evrything should be considered for the both of you,.........you are no longer seperate items you are a couple.
respect and honesty is a must
2007-01-26 19:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice to women: "keep your legs open and your mouth shut"
Advice to men: be nice to your mother in law, eat her horrible cooking. Tell her how pretty she is and how much you love her and give her lots of money!
2007-01-26 19:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
DONT DO IT
2007-01-27 10:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by david b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋