lately my best friend has been bieng a real backstabber and taking the guys i like, i dont know why, but she tells me things like, "its not my fault they like me". Shes did it 3 times now and its gotten to the point to where i dont even want to tell her who i like anymore. Even if i like him alot and she sees that he likes me too. The first time she took a guy, it was one i had been dating for a week or so. And it seems like she doesnt like a guy unless i do, i could be going out with him and she wouldnt care, she will still be with him!! Since the first one she snatched up, she took 2 more and she still wants me to be her friend and hang out WITH her when shes hanging out with my crush. I dont know what to do, i want to get revenge on her so bad...but i dont wanna get on her level...any suggestions? and why do you think shes doing this?
2007-01-26 19:10:56 · 10 answers · asked by Lil Brown Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all
She's not a true friend
I mean, it kinda looked like she's just using you to get into the pants of GOOD GUYS...I mean, the way you stated "She doesn't like a guy unless I do".
maybe she's jealous because no guy ever looked at her and her jealousy led to stealing your guy.
She wanted to be "YOU" so bad that it ended up stealing what's rightfully yours
my advice: "Don't tell her who you like" and if she ever steal your guy, it's the guy's decision if he would let her steal him from you or not....Since if the guy really likes you, he wouldn't believe her (even if she talks a lot of cruel things about you)...
Someday, she would realize how wrong she is...IGNORE her or tell her that you don't want to be friends with her anymore
2007-01-26 19:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by acerbus18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you write; Best friend Or do I need glasses that rearrange the letters for me ? A best friend wouldn't dare do such a thing.
You need to start giving her the cold shoulder and the silent treatment. Don't be ever talk to her again. If she persues you as a friend or if she tries to get into your life in any way. Tell her that next time you will call the Police and make sure they give her a visit and tell her to leave you and your future boyfriend alone. If she violates that. Call 911 and tell the Police she's threatening you in some way. She's doing this.Because,she's got some screws loose around the cranium area.. Just tell her; If you keep doing this to me. There's going to be consequences for your actions. If she still doesn't get it. Try an unexpected punch or 2 in her face if she continues to do this to you. That will ring the bells in her head.
2007-01-26 20:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by sandwreckoner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends do that espically women(no offence) but in my experience in observation, women dont know what the hell they want at all, completly indecisive at times. this may be why she seems to be stealing your intrests, she doesnt know what she wants so she goes after the opinion of someone that matters to her. you like this guy she likes this guy... it seems to me she wants your life. she envys you therefore shes taking what you want/have. if i were you i'd set it straight with her.either by dumpin her friendship or by waitin on her to pick a guy and teach her how it feels to be backstabbed, its a pickle and only you can choose whats right for you. even tho it sucks, you should feel flattered that she only takes what you like, cuz it means she trust your judgment alot...... maybe a lil too much :s
2007-01-26 19:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by airdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does this because she likes having power over you, the power to take things away from you that you like. AND she KNOWS she can do it, so that just adds fuel to the fire.
How do you get her back? Get a guy to start hitting on her (a guy you know that she doesn't) and stuff, get to know her, then as soon as they start to get close, make sure he goes right after you and snubs her. That will get her fuming!!!
2007-01-26 19:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND! ! ! !
This is not how best friends treat each other. Cut the ties now, it will only continue, even if it continues behind your back. Think about her down the line, sleeping with you husband. Every time you let her get away with it, you're telling her it's ok.
2007-01-26 19:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Lost Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2her, it may sound difficult but try it, it works, frankly, voice your opinions, tell her how u feel everytime it happens, shez your best friend , she'll understand
n if your guy, chooses her, therez nothin wrong wid u, or your friend, it s his fault, he shud stick 2 1, n not let his loyalty waver
best of luck
hope everything settles down
n anyway, who needs a guy?
2007-01-26 19:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by i RoCk i rUlE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thanks for answering my question. returning the favor. your friend needs to stop doing that. try telling the guy nasty things about her so he doesnt like her. but that's kind of low. just kill her and hide the body :P
2007-01-26 19:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not really a best friend if she is going to do that.
2007-01-26 19:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by Sadee C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore this girl. she wants to piss you. if a guy is serious about dating you, your bestfriend won't be able to stop him.
2007-01-26 19:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dun find another best frd?
2007-01-26 19:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋