I have had the same dream about once or twice a week for the past 6 Years. It starts out where me and my firnds are in my 1st car a 1989 Hyundai Excel hatchbak that is red. We are driving along and all the sudden a brick wall apears and we smash into it no one is hurt but when we get out the eniter front is smashed up to the front door. My dream then jumps to my old back yard.I am waling with Janie a girl i use to know and love that comitted suiside in 2001 and we are talking. All the sudden she disapers and I stat fanticly looking for her. when I find her she is haning from a tree by a rope wearing the last thing I saw here in in real life.
2007-01-26 19:02:52 · 8 answers · asked by volvo_1989_1 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I say your dreaming this because Janie spirit keeps visiting you and she may be trying to tell you something in your dream. She may have not got to say something to you before she died. You see her in the same thing she wore the last time you saw her because thats the last picture of her you saw in your mind too.
Dreaming of your old backyard is a way to bring Janie into your dreams with old memories left in your head rather than her interfering into your dreams with all your new memories. She is just a blast from the past so you'll remember her in old places not new places because shes not here with you now in your new places.
Your 1st car like i said back tracking the past once again.
You suddenly see a brick wall meaning you didn't see it comming and you hit it out of nowhere when it suddenly appears. kinda like what happen with Janie's life.
Basically your obsession with her death makes your life a struggle to move forward and you need to ask for the white light of the holy spirit to take that dream away from your thoughts at night. If you let things go with Janie and you tell janie's spirit to let you move on from this I promise you that your dreams will be different from then on.
2007-01-26 19:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by Daniell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mind doesn't understand how Janie could just disappear in this way. Similar to a trauma it brings the situation up again and again so it will be dealt with. It's wondering whether this can just happen, like an accident or what?!
It would be good if you could read about and get comfortable with the idea of death more. Maybe even meditate on it. There are good meditation techniques on death in Buddhist and some other spiritual teachings.
It's worth putting the effort. If you don't it might influence other relationships in a subconscious bad way. Conversely, you will feel more stable and clear when your done. All the best to you.
2007-01-26 19:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you haven't had closure regarding her death. You haven't accepted it in some way so at night you keep remembering her and having this horrible dream. Is there something you can think of you can do to try to get some kind of closure regarding her death? Did you go to her funeral? Try talking to someone to see if it helps bring some kind of closure to this situation. Suicide, I know if an awful thing to accept cause you can't understand why someone would do such a thing but it is something that happens and you have to find a way to accept it somehow.
2007-01-26 19:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by Turtle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Volvo, My GOD that is terrible. What i am getting from your dream,is she is trying to tell you,something is going to happen to you.When you have this dream again,try to remember all the details of what is going on,and happening. I know it's hard to think about details,specailly when you are sleeping. Just think during the day about details in your recurring dream. This should help.
Clowmy
2007-01-26 19:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dream sounds tragic. maybe your inner self is trying to tell you that you need to let go of something, the brick wall could possibly indicate a barrier that you cant get through. good luck!
2007-01-26 19:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by little.clown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anxiety dream
2007-01-27 01:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the people, they talks to me...
2007-01-26 19:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by bpm_255 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thank you for sharing.
2007-01-26 19:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋