I screwed up with an incredible guy big time and lost him.I know if I ever got a second chance I'd grab it with both hands.Am I being fair to my current fiancee by marrying him?
2007-01-26 18:58:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do love my fiancee,I may never get over my ex and the chance of my ex ever asking me to get back with him is tiny.
2007-01-26 19:55:59 · update #1
Absolutely not. A marriage will only work if both partners give 100%. By holding off for this other guy, you're keeping part of that, and putting your fiancee second. Your spouse should NEVER be second to another man!
Do you and your fiancee a favor, and call off the engagement. You either need to get over this other guy, or find someone who makes you forget about him entirely.
Good luck!
2007-01-26 19:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know someone right now that would leave the person they are with if the EX would say lets go bab! Now that is F U C K E D UP if you ask me, don't you think? Now if your fiancee had a skeleton in his closet you wouldn't wont it to show up now would you that way you can see how it feels.You need to tell your future EX husband what you have in mind now that Way he wont beat the S H I T out of you when you run OFF or maybe he will what do you think he should DO
2007-01-26 19:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he complaining that he does all of the domicile initiatives? do no longer you the two stay in that domicile and make a large number? in case you the two have jobs, then you definately could each do 0.5 of the domicile initiatives. once you're a stay at domicile spouse/mom, then why is he doing all of the houseswork? I assure you that as quickly as you break up, he will no longer return over on your domicile and sparkling your domicile for you. in line with danger your husband has replaced in view which you have replaced and he's bored stiff and depressed with regard to the marriage and he makes use of the video games and watching the television to flee his very own sadness. I advise you have a competent communicate including your husband and surely pay attention to what he says as a manner to artwork WITH him to sparkling up your marital issues. that's the two that or get your self a competent paying pastime, so which you will help your self while this marriage ends.
2016-11-01 09:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, ask your self the same question would you want your fiancee to marry you if he was Hung up on some other chick that he would leave you in a heart beat if she would say yes to him I don't think so be honest, it would not be fair to you so the answer would be no its not fair to him.
2007-01-26 19:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by Katarena S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no cuz ur wasting time hoping for some reconcilliation with the former guy. its not worth it and you may screw up big time in this relationship and look back and be saying the same thing.
we do that sometimes...not learn from our past mistakes.
2007-01-26 19:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your still hung up on your ex and would take him back if he wanted it then why are you getting married? Remember marriage is SUPPOSED to be forever.
2007-01-26 19:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,
and if he knew, he would not want to marry you either.
think about it, would you marry your current fiance if you knew he was secretly waiting for his ex to come back?
No one wants to be second fiddle!
It is not fair to your current man
2007-01-26 19:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not being fair at all.If your heart is with another man then you shall not marry this one,
2007-01-26 19:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by amber 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A better question is why would anybody marry you?
2007-01-26 19:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!! NO! NO!!
and divorce is a lot harder than a breakup!!
2007-01-26 19:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by Starla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋