Ok so I asked everyones opinion on my seperation..now I'd like to know how to move on..see i've been married since the day after I graduated..b4 that I never dated never had a boyfriend not even close...So he is all i've ever known..I don't know how to go "back" to the dating scene especially since we didn't date...we were young thought we were in love and married a few weeks later...
2007-01-26 18:53:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For all those mentioning going out with Girlfriends we run into a problem of where all of my friends are married or extremely religious and do not go out
2007-01-26 19:25:10 · update #1
I'm not sure if in asking this question you are now separated and moving on. But I will answer based on you being both.
The dating scene is very different I'm sure from before you were married. It used to be so easy to meet people. Today everyone is either selfish, cautious, scared, possessive, criminals, and who knows what else! You almost have to be introduced to someone by a good friend that knows both of you, or try your luck at on line dating, which can be handled in a secure manner if you utilize some common sense.
Just trust your instincts, and take your time in getting to know someone. Be careful that you don't find yourself falling on the rebound, because you are so newly separated and perhaps lonely.
Good luck to you.
2007-01-26 19:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think this is a pretty easy one. All you need to do is hang out very often with your girl friends maybe by going to parties, shopping, clubbing, and even going on vacations. And remember you must dress to impress else you might not attract any man. When a man approaches you for a date, you might wanna play a little difficult by fixing a distant day (about 2 to 3days from the day you were asked) claiming you wouldnt be free in the earlier days. Although, this might get you a little nervous as the day draws near but try as much as possible to keep it cool (dont be too idle).
On the "D-day" you dress to impress but not extravagantly, if you like the guy help him out by smiling/laughing in between conversations even if it doesn't warrant it (trust me it helps). After the date and you think his a nice gentle man you can invite him in to your house for a cup of coffe or something of such and whatever happens after that solly depends on you.
2007-01-27 03:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by funtell85 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just one step at a time.
First learn to love you for being 'you'!
Don't look back at the past, and 'NEVER' compare other guys to your EX.
Fix yourself up, go out on the town with some friends and just have a good time.
I actually wouldn't go looking for any guy, I'd let 'him come to you!!
Have respect for yourself, and let time bring
you the 'love of your life'..
Until then, enjoy your freedom and relax..
2007-01-27 03:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get your divorce and don't worry about finding any one yet. It will take some time, to find yourself, and what you want out of life. Do the things you enjoy, then you'll be ready, and I'm sure it will come natural.
2007-01-27 02:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on being single first: find things you enjoy doing that you couldn't have done before with him, things you;ve always wanted to do, things ained toward self-improvement.
You don't really want all the drama that comes with jumping into another relationship before you are happy being single again, do you?
2007-01-27 03:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just one word of advice.. Go slow.. That could be traumatic for you if you take a new relationship too fast..
2007-01-27 02:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break for a while.....then start dating again.
2007-01-27 02:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let the Man Find you dont think about it! Believe me it works
2007-01-27 03:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by HunnyBunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a break and find yourself, and dating is not all that!!
2007-01-27 02:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Sandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats your question
2007-01-27 02:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by blahblahblah 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋