i have a secret to myself a best frnd of mine came to know abt it(it was about him) because of sudden change in my behaviour and now i m nt telling and he is not talking............saying that you dont trust me n stuff
plzz help...
2007-01-26 18:42:00 · 7 answers · asked by tan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to talk to him/her
2007-01-26 18:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let him know I trust you with my life but there are just some things that you don't feel comfortable talking about. I would say and I feel like you are being a jerl ( I might even say something worse but I won't say that online like you are being an ***)by not respecting my wishes to not discuss this with you. I would also say you are my best friend and always will be and I tell you almost everything but this is just something I can't talk to you about because of your position.
2007-01-26 18:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by Angela D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to come clean secrets are not good especially if you all are such good friends. if you really care about this person you will tell the truth he is probably not mad at you anyways just meet with him face to face go out for a drink or to dinner and talk it out. More then likely you will patch it up.
2007-01-26 18:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on what that secret is. You have to think about whether or not keeping it to yourself wasn't going to jeopardize your relationship with him.
And your best bet is to talk to him.
You have to understand (and if you can, make HIM understand) that being friends does not mean having to tell each other and every thing. I'm sure he's got things that you don't know about.
2007-01-26 19:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by bookworm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jst come up with a silly secret and tell make him beleive that is what you knew. Don't act as though you don't know
2007-01-26 18:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that when the time is right, you'll eventually tell him.
2007-01-26 18:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by MissaSolemnis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's the one being unreasonable..
2007-01-26 18:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋