When a man marries a woman who is refusing to give him the necessary submission to love making or sex, would it not result to having sex outside marraige??? Would such a man not be commiting adultery??? Or the woman also???
2007-01-26 18:22:29 · 10 answers · asked by jonaoze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can a DIVORCE not be the best solution???
2007-01-26 18:24:20 · update #1
Adultery is sexual thoughts/words/actions with or towards a person other than your spouse.
"Refusing to give him the necessary submission" is a ridiculous reason to commit adultery or get a divorce. The Biblical concept of "submission" does NOT mean that a man can dictate his wife's sexuality or force or pressure her to have sex. "Submission" involves allowing the man to lead in Biblical matters and respecting him as the head of the household. This submission can really only be done when a wife knows that her husband is looking out for her best interests. If he isn't, then he's not holding up his end of the arrangement, either, and he should consider that.
My advice -- start treating your wife with respect and not as a sex object. Let her know that you care about her and that you want to do what is best for her always. Be patient -- it may take time to earn her trust back. Good luck
2007-01-26 18:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by wnk 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If that's the case the couple shouldn't be married. The other person is going to be tempted with that and that would be adultery. Having sex outside the marriage whether your the man or the woman is adultery. If your being tempted to cheat i would seek marriage counseling.
2007-01-26 19:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-01-28 12:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married and have sex with someone besides your spouse, it is adultery. You can't say that it is not, no matter what the reason for doing it in the first place.
2007-01-26 18:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by rosey 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Someone who has sex with another person while married is commiting adultery, whether they feel justified in doing so or not.
2007-01-26 18:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is a better solution than Adultery...
2007-01-26 18:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adultery is not defined by what is deserved, but by the act of going outside of your marriage for sex. Justify it all you want, but it doesn't change what it is.
2007-01-26 18:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adultery is CHEAting on your wife or husband... i mean physically cheating on them " have ing Sex". its normal to think and fantacise about another person as long as you don't act on it!!! were human its okay to look and dream about someone else we just can't touch!! but answer this is it adultery if a married man thinks about another women..
2007-01-26 18:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋