well this what happend i went to my school homecomming game today. and when i went my ex boyfriend was there and he kept tryna have sex with (he was saying come on out to my car) but i didnt go he kept huging me,telling me he wont me to have his child,and other stuff. so i told my boyfriend and he got real mad....was i wrong for telling him?? my boyfriend said he wonted and honest realtionship.so after i told him that, my boyfriend made 2 comments saying why dont you call james and talk to him,and you lame ask james to go with you. i didnt understand why he was mad at first but now i know. but he mad at me and he wont talk to me. what can i do to make the situation better? i need advice because in 3 or 4 weeks we will have been together for 1 year. and i dont wont me and him to break up.
2007-01-26 18:13:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Your boyfriend is just upset about what happen. Its not your fault . At least you were honest with him. So he should get over it sooner or later. until then just keep your head you will
2007-01-26 18:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that I suggest you do is keep apologizing and assuring your boyfriend that he's the only one that you want; let him know that you want to move forward and not backwards. Let him know that you were just being honest with him because it's great for your relationship and he can't be mad at you for that. All boy/girlfriends get made when they hear the truth but getting mad at you won't change what's happened. Good Luck!
2007-01-27 02:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if neither guy has the maturity for a relationship. You were honest and your boyfriend slapped you in the face with it. You deserve better than him. Either have fun being single or find someone who truly appreciates your honesty.
2007-01-27 02:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you need to sit down and seriously talk about your future and your relationship and where it is really heading Good Luck
2007-01-27 02:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by j13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't homecoming games in the fall?
2007-01-27 02:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by Timeless 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you did the right thing. go talk to him again and let him know what you feel.
2007-01-27 02:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are both azzholes.You did nothing wrong.Dump them both.
2007-01-27 02:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋