well i know that being a virgin at this age is perfectly fine but not kissing yet. that is just crazy right? i don't know why. maybe i...I dont know what to think
2007-01-26 18:02:51 · 40 answers · asked by bkern 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm 21 and haven't either. I don't feel dumb, I'm Cucoo for Coco Puffs.
2007-01-26 18:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by krumpmaster terrell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dont worry its perfectly normal and ok. im 18 and i had my first kiss at 16 turning 17. i was always waiting for the right guy cus i wanted it to be a memorable moment. and since im not the type of girl that likes a guy easily, it took some time. then, i got tired of waiting and started thinking that maybe there was something wrong with me, kinda like you are thinking now, and i met this guy that i just thought was attractive and shared that with him (i didnt even liked him that much and barely knew him). even though i did it for the wrong reasons i didnt regret it cus it wasnt that bad, but i still think i should have waited and not let the pressure get to me.
so dont worry about it, you have every right to wait until you want to share that memorable moment with someone special.
2007-01-26 18:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, don't feel bad. You should feel good!
Would you rather waste your first kiss with a girl that has made out with tons of guys and had sex with a few?
Or would you rather save your first kiss for that special girl who hasn't had her first kiss either, making it special for both of you.
It is a really special thing. Good thing you didn't follow the 'crowd' when you were younger.
I mean think about it, think of all of your friends who have had a first kiss. Are they still with them? Most likely not. You know why? Because they were too young and hopeless.
2007-01-26 18:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 when I had my first kiss. I don't think you should worry about it. I mean, you can get someone to kiss you, but don't you want it to be nice, pleasant, memorable? Be glad. You have something to look forward to. Just don't kiss the first guy/girl you see. Or if you're just trying to get it over with, then go for it. I only say "guy/girl" because I didn't pay attention to which gender you are.
2007-01-26 18:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by Karibuboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats awesome! a first kiss when your young is kinda borning. It would be between classes or something. but your seventeen! he will actually be able to drive you home and walk you to your door step. or maybe you will be on a really nice date where you actually dress up to walk into the resturaunt. it wont be durring some social even like some school dance. thats way over done any borning! your first kiss will be so much more special than anyone else you know!
2007-01-26 18:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is that crazy? Not counting many kisses with my 6-year old friend when I was 7, my first was 17. Don't worry about it. It jus happens at different times for different people. And, as for sex, it's great to wait as long as possible.
2007-01-26 18:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stress out your just not ready yet I have a room mate that is 21 and a virgin and he is very shy and he just dont know what to say to a girl You guys should become friends LOL Good luck
2007-01-26 18:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by bluemoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 19, and I haven't had my first kiss yet either; I have several friends who are in the same boat. It's not that we're unattractive people, it's just that we really haven't had the opportunity to kiss anyone where it would actually mean anything to us.
2007-01-26 18:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Melancholy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 18 very close to turning 19 and in college and i havent either. i know there are people who havent gotten their first kiss till they were 22. trust me you're fine. i know it feels like you're missing out on something but just remember that the right person will come along and your first kiss will mean even more perfect because it's with someone you truly care about.
2007-01-26 18:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by collgegrl11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy and i didnt have my first kiss until i was 18 years old. Its nothing to be ashamed of or to feel pitty on yourself for. your first kiss should be something special because you only get one first kiss so make it count. your fine and it will happen when the times right. hopefully that helps
2007-01-26 18:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the rush. Kissing is something that means very little to many and a whole lot to others. If it is important to you, wait to find a special someone to kiss, and at a special time.
2007-01-26 18:09:35 · answer #11 · answered by Sweet T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋