The first time I had sex I was at it for about an hour until my now ex-girlfriend tired out.
We had sex twice after that and it was the same story, once it was in a public place which got me going, and we tried out a diff. position, but still no orgasm, I enjoyed having sex with her simply because she was my girlfriend and well i was having sex, but actual pleasure rarely came, no pun intended.
2007-01-26 18:00:42 · 11 answers · asked by manner_rx 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
i can climax by myself, i just thought i was doing too much of that.
Thats the only partner i've ever had and well i was actually scared i'd orgasm too soon given i was a virgin. So are those my only two options?
2007-01-26 18:16:46 · update #1
i used a condom, regular trojan. i thought that might be my problem, but i sure as hell wasn't gonna risk unprotected sex.
2007-01-26 18:18:42 · update #2
I appreciate the straight forward answers, i appreciate even more the answers with more of an explanation, i'd like to find someone else but i'm not really confident in myself, i'm not very attractive, but that had nothing to do with my last gf because i never felt like that around her, also..she was kind of willing to do a lot, i'm worried that when i do find another partner i'll less of chance of climaxing if they aren't as adventerous given that was my first and only experience
2007-01-26 18:35:45 · update #3
nope not gay,
and great advice about the threesome
but it is my understanding a lot of girls wouldnt go for that.
2007-01-27 05:06:46 · update #4
it is all in the head my friend. No pun intended. You are focused on the orgasm. I couldn't come the first few times... hard to have manual stimulation after hours of sex. Also if drugs or booze is involved... another major factor that inhibits feeling. Finally.. what sort of protection were you using? Certain condoms are so thick that they cut off all sensation to me.
Do you have probs masturbating?
2007-01-26 18:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by lifereallysux 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good boy, never have unprotected sex. #1 thing is to relax and remember she thinks your hot or she wouldn't be there, be confident. Women like men who take control. Sex is a very private matter, so feel uninhibited, ask her to suck you off or jerk you off, tell her what position to get in. You have to worry about yourself and your own sexual needs before your ever going to please her. Perhaps the reason it's easier for you to get off when you masturbate is because your in control and can rely on your own ideal sexual situations for stimulation. Recreate them, trust me, I know some bad girls!
2007-01-26 18:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never heard of that, exactly.... have you ever experienced orgasm, um, by yourself?
probably you should check with a doctor, even though this may be difficult to talk about with another actual person...
p.s., if she's now your ex because you wore her out and didn't come, she's a b1tc#, and you deserve better.
2007-01-26 18:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are scared or you haven't found the right girl to do it for you. Either way you need professional help.
2007-01-26 18:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by hottempr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to check with a urologist.
2007-01-26 18:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to see a urologist, can you climax during masturbation? if so then what you need is a psychatrist.
2007-01-26 18:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have a problem. consult a doctor immediately
2007-01-26 18:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by curiousguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should see a urologist and a psychologist.
2007-01-26 18:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Josh T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u just need a different partner with more...FORCE!! and tongue licking action, of course!
2007-01-26 18:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by I LOVE POTC3!!! 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
three way buddy
2007-01-26 20:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jennie C 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋