MY HUSBAND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 7 MONTHS BUT WE SEEM TO HAVE A COMMUNICATION PROBLEM WE TRY TO TALK THINGS OUT AND MOST OF THE TIME WE BOTH END UP MAD. WE LOVE EACH OTHER ALOT BUT THIS IS A PROBLEM WE PLAN ON STAYING TOGETHER FOR A LONG TIME HAS ANYONE ELSE HAD THIS PROBLEM AND HOW DID YOU DEAL WITH IT THANK YOU
2007-01-26 17:56:55 · 7 answers · asked by COUNTRY GIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is not a problem at all. I have been married for 7 yrs. and communicating with my husband has been difficult too. Don't worry too much, if u love ur hubby then this is just a small thing. Everytime u have a communication tiff then remember the good old days that u guys have spent together. This helps me to override any negative feelings that come across in my mind. I always tell myself that I married this man 'cause I love him and that does the trick. I know that in some situations it is difficult but at those times the best thing to do is to keep shut, engross ur mind in doing something else. When both of u are in better moods then try to sort things out.
Many times it so happens that when u are in a heated state of mind then u tend to pick up all the nasty things too say to each other. To avoid repenting what u have said bite ur tongue and tell ur self not to say it.
Last but not the least remember always that men n women have been communicating on different levels - intellectual, emotional, etc.
Read some jokes abt husband n wife communication bloopers and amuse ur self. You'll feel better. Best of luck n take care.
2007-01-26 18:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Dimple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also had the same problem with my husband and I was the one that ended up mad. Always think before you speak and remember no insults. Remain calm and take turn hearing each other out.
2007-01-26 18:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by Christy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do healthy fighting do not bring up past arguments fight about the current one and spend 15 min a night talking about any issues if that does not work both of you right this down and exchange your papers then you will be able to here with out mean words if your least concern is a fight and nothing else then its just a fight you could have worse issues like the katrina victims
2007-01-26 18:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by sailor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u need to weigh the pros & cons of going back or staying away. can u afford the same lifestyle u now enjoy if u had to pay for it all yourself? is being in a relationship required for u to be happy? chances are he will have a difficult time remaining faithful. are u able to continue the relationship and trust that he won't cheat again? i'm not one for telling people to give up when i don't know the whole story but u have alot of soul searching to do before making a decision. i wish u luck.
2016-05-24 04:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that you guys have to practice talking! I've been Married many years and Many years have been wasted!
2007-01-26 18:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more affectionate and supportive, if he doesen't change.
Then trade him in for a new husband who does give a care ..
2007-01-26 18:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should really buy the dr phil book relationship rescue! Seriously.
2007-01-26 18:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by V8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋