so me and my girlfriend had tried for a moment for a kid... like we had sex for a whole month... like 2-3 times a day and... well nothing happend??? could it be me or could it be her? and if its me then whats the matter and same thing with her???
2007-01-26 17:44:01 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It can take healthy couples with no fertility problems a year to conceive. So don't think there is something wrong, keep trying. Fertility specialists would laugh at you if you came to them and said we've been trying for a month. And the more sex...the less chance of pregnancy. If you have sex more than once a day, your sperm count goes really low...and then your chance of conceiving goes downhill like crazy.
Maybe you should cool your jets for a while...make sure you're not getting sweaty and heated up down there (also lowers sperm count)...wear boxers...and stop having sex for a while. Lower your caffeine intake, and smoking if you do that... Have your gf get an ovulation test kit...or have her start planning her ovulation... And then have sex as she is ovulation...and you should be able to have a baby in no time. But just remember, it can take a while!
2007-01-26 17:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On average, most couples (about 91%) who are not using birth control will get pregnant within a year. Trust me, its no big deal that you didnt get pregnant the first month. Especially if your girlfriend was on a hormonal birthcontrol like the pill or patch. For some women, it can take a few months to a year for it to get out of their system. I would not start being concerned until you have been trying for a whole year without results. What you are experiencing is totally normal. You are obviously uneducated on the subject, so I would definetly make a point of learning more about all this if I were you. Good luck. It will happen when it is meant to.
2007-01-27 01:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't expect to get pregnant the first month you try, it may take several months. Just because it takes awhile doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with either of you just be patient. If nothing happens after a year then you or her should get checked out to make sure everything is ok.
2007-01-27 01:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by Sakora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you are having sex 2-3 times a day you could be lowering your sperm count. Have sex every other day.
Secondly, it can take a couple a year to conceive a child even if nothing is wrong with either of them.
Relax!
2007-01-27 02:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by wendysorangeblossoms 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you had a low sperm count, maybe she didn't drop an egg that month! You'll never know. Most couples try for a year or so before seeing a specialist. My good friends just gave birth to a healthy baby boy, after a year and a half of trying to get pregnant!
2007-01-27 01:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately talk to a doctor. I mean you can't tell. And your timing might be off as well. The very best thing would be to talk to a doctor. See if she can use an ovulation chart to see what time exactly she is fertile. Keep trying, if nothing happens and your REALLY ready to have a kid, then consult a doctor.
2007-01-27 01:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by Alene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You have to save up at least 2 days, and do it when it counts, not every day.
2. She better be more than a friend if your going to have a kid together. You are taking on quite a responsibility.
2007-01-27 01:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously something is wrong with one of you, making it hard to get pregnant. You should see a doctor and see whats going on. But dont let anybody tell you that you are not capable of having children because that is bull ****. My aunt and uncle BOTH were told they EITHER one of them could have children. And guess what, they have three! Yes, it may take some time, but getting pregnant is a gift and miracle from god, and if it is meant to be it WILL happen! I promise.
2007-01-27 01:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by maximraxma 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you tried "for a moment"?!
please don't. stop trying. you are waaaaaaaaaayyyyyyy too young. wait until you are married for a baby. are you even old enough to drive?
when you mature, and can afford to financially, mentally, and physically take care of a child, then try to have one. can you financially support her if she needs to stay home during the pregnancy? stop trying. God is telling you no!
2007-01-27 11:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may go for a check up in the hospital so that you will know the reason. You may encourage your girlfriend too.
2007-01-27 01:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by lui 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋