well this what happend i went to my school homecomming game today. and when i went my ex boyfriend was there and he kept tryna have sex with (he was saying come on out to my car) but i didnt go he kept huging me,telling me he wont me to have his child,and other stuff. so i told my boyfriend and he got real mad....was i wrong for telling him?? my boyfriend said he wonted and honest realtionship.so after i told him that, my boyfriend made 2 comments saying why dont you call james and talk to him,and you lame ask james to go with you. i didnt understand why he was mad at first but now i know. but he mad at me and he wont talk to me. what can i do to make the situation better? i need advice because in 3 or 4 weeks we will have been together for 1 year. and i dont wont me and him to break up.
2007-01-26 17:41:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i know for a fact he dont wonna break up. so dont say break up with him.....please dont.
2007-01-26 17:42:01 · update #1
i am not playing games. i wa sbeing honest. so for you people who dont know what honest is learn it!!!!!
2007-01-26 17:48:17 · update #2
Your A**hole of a boyfriend should realize that you did the correct thing by telling him and being honest. I guess the "shock" of what your A**Hole ex did to you kind of got him upset, but it is indeed no excuse for him to be upset at you. Especially to the point to stop talking to you.
You'll have to let him get it out of his system but don't let him make you feel bothered by it. Know you did the right thing by telling him and that he just needs to stop freaking out. Try talking to him and telling him that if he really wants an honest relationship he'lkl have to know that s**t like this will happen and that he just has to trust that you do the right thing.
2007-01-26 18:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are both messing up here. For starters, you should have told your ex to take a hike immediately. The fact that you let him say as much to you about that stuff as you did was wrong. Secondly, you present boyfriend should be glad you told him. If you want a real relationship, you can't keep things from each other. He should not be acting like that. Although, he probably wouldn't be so upset if you hadn't spent so much time listening to your ex try to coerce you.
2007-01-26 17:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by mac&cheese 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think he just needs some time to cool down. We guys can be very hot headed and can even be a bit on the jealous side. Mostly because we put so much time into things that it does mean something to us. It's painful to hear something like that considering the case was with an ex, but if you reassure him that it was just an ex and it's over while giving him a little bit of time, things should be fine.
2007-01-26 17:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by jdudecrazy13 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sound to me like your boyfriend has some self esteem issues and is real insecure. its like your supposed to make anybody that has everbeen or could be a threat to him dissappear. it might not be self esteem but i assure you he is insecure. i'm not gonna say break up with him just be careful because guys like that will get REAL possesive sometimes so juyst be aware. other than that the only real way to make him get over that faster his with some head games that i wont explain to you because its wrong so there is really nothing you can do except wait it out odd category to put your question in btw
2007-01-26 17:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by skytzo ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenagers are really retarded sometimes aren't they? Sounds to me like he's just jealous of the attention that your getting from your ex. Is he looking for a reason to break up with you? I'd just give him awhile to cool off. Hang with your girlfriends for awhile. He'll realise he's in the wrong.
2007-01-26 17:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games with your boyfriend. Letting another guy hug you and talk about going to the car to have sex and then telling your boyfriend is toying with his emotions. If you play those games you'll be the loser.
2007-01-26 17:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by itry007 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
for a start it's not wont it's WANT ok? and no u shouldnt of told him he will think u r being unfaithful i can't believe i just said that haha man i grow up fast hahaha sorry yeah good luck
*taz*
2007-01-26 21:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by taytaymm28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy. no you didn't do anything wrong for tell him. just tell him to grow up and your with him because you love him.
OR maybe he's cheating on you...they do that too accuse you or tell you to go be with other guys so they don't feel as bad. lol DUMB.
I'd go with he's just jealous and needs to be shown that you ahve no interest in other boys
2007-01-26 21:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by Jen J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing telling your boyfriend. And you did all the right things. But guys get jealous.... it's true
2007-01-26 17:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by sexybabe16 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUMB BINT!
just get your clothes off and reverse on to his bell end and move backwards and forewards till its all over then when he comes get him to lick it out and french kiss you
2007-01-26 23:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by iamprometheusmusic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋